This guy was everything that you ever wanted. He was good-looking, funny, charming, and exciting. Being with him gave you butterflies, the kind you thought only existed in movies. Yet, something still wasn’t quite right. No matter how much you loved him or how much you wanted him, he never felt quite the same way about you.
I know it may be tempting to stay. When you love someone this much, it can feel almost impossible to walk away. But please, don’t waste your time on a man who can’t decide if he wants you – you deserve more than that.
Half of His Love is Not Enough
You love him deeply, so much so that you’re willing to look past his indifference. Yes, he cares about you and he does have strong feelings for you, but is that really enough? Are you really willing to be with someone who will never give you the full extent of their full love?
Trust me, you are worth real love.
You’re worth someone’s absolute adoration and affection. Most of all, you’re deserving of someone who will look into your eyes and know that you are the one from them. Anything less than that shouldn’t even be worth your time, no matter how much he may mean to you.
If He Really Loved You, He Would Know
Saying what I’m about to say to you now is going to hurt you, but it’s something that you need to understand – you are not his soulmate.
You are not his soulmate and he is not yours. When you meet the person that you’re meant to be with, you instantly know. You should feel a connection that’s unshakable and undeniable. Although you may feel that for him, he doesn’t feel that for you. If he did, he wouldn’t be unsure.
Trust me, if he really loved you, he wouldn’t need time to think.
He wouldn’t need time to decide if his love is true or if there’s someone better waiting around the corner. If he really cared, he would already know that you are the woman for him. Sadly, in a one-sided relationship such as this one, you’re only ever going to be his second choice.
You are Worthy
Don’t let this man kill your love for yourself. Don’t let him ruin your confidence and make you believe that he’s the best that you can get. You may love him deeply, but that doesn’t make up for the awful ways in which he makes you feel.
You deserve someone who can make up their mind about you. Until you find that person, then go back to learning to love yourself instead. Once you realize that you are worth someone’s entire heart, you will never want to settle for someone who can’t decide.
Please believe me when I say that the only love that you deserve is one where he knows that you’re the woman of his dreams.
It hurts deeply when someone can’t decide whether they really want to be with you or not. Although you may believe that you should sit through it all and wait, you don’t deserve that. You don’t deserve the anguish of dealing with a man who can’t make up his mind. So, let him go. Move on and wait for the person who will truly appreciate you.
If you know a woman who’s been trapped in a relationship like this, share this with her. Let her know that she will find someone who will love her in the way that she deserves. Until then, she should never settle for anything else.