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Some People Aren’t Destined To Be In Your Life No Matter How Much You Want Them To Be

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There are people that will never be with you, no matter how much you love them because their path is different than yours. You are not their destined person, and they are not yours. And that’s okay.

The people that are meant to be in your life, will be. And they will stay.

However, if you want someone and they don’t feel the same for you, there is nothing you can do about it. There is really no point in fighting about a connection if you are fighting alone. Relationships should be about two people equally putting in an effort. When you are in a relationship with someone you love and they love you back, it is easy and effortless.

Because, sometimes, no matter how much you want a person to be with you, they can never be. You will only waste your time living in an illusion when you should be moving on with your life.

Whether it’s timing, emotional unavailability, chemistry, or anything else entirely – it doesn’t matter. What matters is that you two are not meant for each other.

Therefore, stop trying to make it happen. Stop wasting your time and energy thinking about someone who doesn’t think about you. Someone who will never love you the way you love them.

Stop making spaces in your heart for people who don’t want to be there.

Don’t hinder your growth and progress. Don’t keep yourself stuck in situations that don’t lead anywhere. Don’t close yourself off to other people because you are waiting on that someone who doesn’t want to be with you.

Move on with your life. Spend time with friends and family. Heal your heart and clear your mind.

And trust me, what’s yours will always be yours.

In the end, everything will fall into place.


I am currently writing my first book titled Inside The Narcissist’s Psyche: His Ability To Make Victims Stay With Him Even Though The Pain They’re Feeling Is Unbearable” If you are interested to take a glimpse at it, follow this link and tell us whether you like the subject so that we can send you a  free chapter after we publish it.

Mary Wright