Sometimes you can’t explain why you are attracted to a certain person – you just are. You can meet someone new and just “click.” Sometimes you can feel an immense chemistry with a stranger and feel them close to you than someone who you have known for years.
How does this attraction occur? I strongly feel that God has a way to bring us closer to some people that we need in a certain period of our life. Maybe God put them in our path because we need to learn something about us because they need to teach us something.
I really believe that we never meet anyone by accident. Every person that comes into our life is for a reason even if we are not able to see it yet.
There is a reason why your heart started beating faster for a certain person. There is a reason why you both got attracted to each other.
When I reminiscence about my past and the people from my past, there is not anyone who was into my life that was not valuable to me in one way or another. Each person taught me something and shaped me into the person that I am today. Yes, they didn’t stay with me, but they were never supposed to. Their purpose was to show me something and then let me go.
The trouble is that oftentimes we try so hard to keep these people into our lives forever even though they are there only temporary. Their role is different. They are not meant to stay with us forever. God introduced you to these people only to prepare you for the one with whom you are meant to be forever.
We should let them go. Because if we get anxious and sad when they leave and beat ourselves up trying to understand why God would take this wonderful person away from you, you should look at this thing from a different perspective.
Maybe if they stayed longer than they were meant to be, their beauty and caring nature would have faded, and they wouldn’t have been an inspiration for you. Perhaps they would have become a burden for you instead of a loving memory.
You have to be brave and have faith in you to let them go. Faith that this is for the better. Faith in God’s way of arranging things into your life so that at the end it will all make a perfect sense.
Perhaps these people are there to teach you how to let go of things, how to detach from a love that no longer serves you and have faith that even though the story is over – you are closer to the person that you were meant to be with.
Maybe they are angels that God sent them to teach you something and help you heal, and when they are done – their purpose is to fly away to someone else’s life, the person they were meant to be with.
And finally, I believe that when we do meet the one that is meant to stay with us forever – we’ll just know. We will feel it with every fiber of our body and soul.
Until then, we should embrace the lessons and never stop evolving.