Our ‘forever’ person is the one we’re not meant to say goodbye to. The one who makes us feel whole and complete. They’re our soulmate. Our best friend. Our lover. Our partner in crime. The love of our life.
Our forever person is the one who makes us feel in ways we’ve never felt before. The one who gives us a sense of fulfillment and brings us inner peace and joy. The one who fills our heart with warmth when they look at us. The one who makes us feel safe when they put their arms around us.
They’re someone who is always by our side. Someone who takes care of us. Someone who is around us on both our good and bad days. They feel happy for us and celebrate with us when we achieve success, but also hold our hand and give us the most comforting hug when we’re feeling down in the dumps.
Our forever person is the one we imagine spending the rest of our life with. The one we picture waking up next to every morning 50 years down the road. The one we imagine being by our side through every challenge and problem life sends our way.
They’re someone who is meant to stay with us forever.
However, life doesn’t always go according to plan. Sometimes the Universe, fate, God, or you name it, gets in the way and forces us to separate from the person that we wish would stay with us forever. Sometimes we’re forced to say that one ‘goodbye’ we never imagined saying. And this happens for reasons that we can’t control.
So, what do you do when you’re forced to let go of your forever person? How do you put an end to your relationship forever? How do you say that final goodbye?
Well, you begin by accepting the fact that they were important to you in a way no one has ever been. You accept the fact that they’ve given you their unconditional love and support. You accept the fact that they’ve given your life meaning and beauty.
But you also accept the harsh reality that you and your forever person weren’t meant for each other. Perhaps you met them at the wrong time or in a Universe where you two were never supposed to be together.
Whatever the reason, you need to let go of them because staying together seems to be more painful than leaving. And this doesn’t mean that you don’t love each other. The love between you may be as deep as it was when you started dating. But love, no matter how pure and intense it is, is not always enough to bind two individuals forever.
Therefore, when you have to let go of your forever person, remember to be thankful. Remember that some people never get to experience that unforgettable feeling of meeting their ‘forever’ person and being loved by them.
Remember that some people never get to experience the strong connection, the genuine intimacy, and the deep devotion that come from meeting your forever person. They never get to know what it really feels like to be with that one person whose soul matches yours and whose heart beats the same as yours.
Therefore, when you have to tell your forever person goodbye, do it calmly and graciously. Do it with kindness and compassion. Do it with love and gratitude.
Because when you know how to value what you have in life while you have it as well as let go of it with gratitude, you also learn how to appreciate and love the one person that you are never going to have to tell goodbye – yourself.
Because the truth is that the only person you’re never going to have to separate from is you.
You are the one who is always going to be there through every difficult challenge, every hardship, every heartbreak, every loss, every happy beginning and sad ending. You are the one who is going to find out how to pick yourself up off the floor when life knocks you down. You are the one who is going to find out how to gather the strength to move forward when everything around you seems to be falling apart.
Therefore, make sure you always respect, value and cherish that person. Make sure you are always there for and take care of that person.
And most importantly, be proud of that strong and amazing person. Be proud of who that person is, their qualities and strength, and their ability to love genuinely, deeply, and unconditionally.
Be proud that you weren’t afraid to love someone with every part of you, even though it didn’t last forever.
Be proud of the strong, loving, and amazing person that you are. Because you are someone who has immense, incalculable worth in a world of twisted values and superficial pleasures, and therefore you need to be able to see and appreciate the wonderful person that you are.