Love is wonderful but love isn’t immortal. It cannot exist if you don’t do your best to protect it. It cannot survive if it isn’t nurtured. It cannot run on air. It simply cannot continue to thrive if one person is doing their best and the other one cannot be bothered to even make an effort.
There has got to be a connection. A bond so pure that will be strong enough to overcome any obstacle on the road. Understanding, compassion, respect, honesty, loyalty, and unconditional commitment. These are just some of the ingredients that make love wonderful and give it strength to flourish. Without them, you have nothing.
So, know this. I don’t know your reasons or what it is that you are going through in life… But I know this. The minute you make someone feel, unappreciated, and unworthy of your love, you will lose them.
You will lose them as soon as they feel like they are not enough for you. As soon as they start questioning you whether you even give a damn about where your relationship is headed. You will lose them as soon they start asking themselves what on Earth they are still doing with you.
You will lose them the minute you stop showing them that you care. You will lose them when you lose interest, but keep pretending that everything is good. You will lose them when you stop expressing your emotions. You will lose them when you take everything they do for granted. You will lose them when you start ignoring them. You will lose them when you forget how lucky you are to have them in your life.
The second you start showing signs that they are nothing more than just an option to you, you will help them open their eyes. You will help them realize that they are indeed wasting precious time with you and after a while, you will lose them. You will lose them as soon as they feel unimportant. You will lose them as soon as you stop treating them the way they deserve.
People feel. They know. Their intuition is more powerful than anything else. The minute the love between you starts to feel unbalanced, they will walk away. The minute you make them feel unappreciated and disrespected, they will leave. Right now, they might be blinded by their feelings to realize the truth, but it won’t take a lot of time for them to get to their senses and see things clearly…
If you don’t take care of what you have, you will lose everything that you once held dear.
So, be careful. Be careful how you treat those around you. Be careful about how you love the people in your life. Life is short. And you know what they say… Karma has no deadline. Sooner or later, it will get to you…