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Stop Wasting Your Love On Someone Who Only Sees You As An Option


Dear person who is reading this,

I know that the only thing your heart desires is to find someone who would love you from the bottom of their heart. And I know that you’re sick of playing those sick, immature games. You’re tired of letting people walk in and out of your life when they feel like it. You are tired of giving second chances.

But, let me tell you something.

That man who has your attention and pretends that he cares about you…

He’s not any different from all of those people who have hurt you in the past.

You can’t really see the truth with your own eyes, because he is doing everything in his power to sugar-coat the reality for you. He is playing you because he wants you all to himself. He is just another emotional freeloader who wants to take advantage of your kindness and break your heart into pieces. 

You cannot let him get to you.

You cannot let him walk over you like that.

You simply cannot be that blind and naïve!

I know that your pure and vulnerable heart knows of nothing more than love and compassion. But sometimes wearing your heart for a sleeve is not a good idea. You know that pretty well. You fall for those kinds of men. You give them the key to your heart. You welcome them inside your world, and you let them hurt you.

The truth is, he is just another one of those guys you promised yourself that you’ll ignore. And sadly, you’re doing the same thing you’ve always been doing. You are giving him the chance to hurt you. You’re making the same mistake. You are falling down the rabbit hole.

So, I am begging you to stop for a second and think about where you’re headed. Your love won’t change a person like this. Everything you do for this person is just a waste of time. He is your priority and you are his option. You are giving yourself away and you’re getting nothing in return. Is this your way of self-love?

You need to stop!

You have to realize that some people are just born toxic. Some human beings out there have no emotion inside of them and no empathy whatsoever. You have to understand that bitter truth and put it in your pretty little head. YOU ARE ONLY HURTING YOURSELF.

And believe me, the longer you wait for things to work out and for him to change, the more you’ll suffer in the end. I know this from my own personal experience.

He does not care for you the way you care for him. You’re investing in a person who is not capable of loving another human being. You are wasting your time and energy on someone who cares only of himself.

Get a hold of yourself. You are giving him the chance to hurt you and prove to you how wrong you are for believing in him.

You deserve more than this person. You deserve to feel happy. You deserve to love and feel loved. You deserve to find a man who will make you his priority.  Don’t ever give that up for someone who is not worthy of your love.

Stop wasting your love on someone who only sees you as an option. The right one will recognize your light and love you more than words can say.

Stephanie Reeds