I think that every woman has been in a situation when she likes someone, but she doesn’t know whether he likes her as much as he says he does. So, she decides to take a step back and see if he will pursue her.
That’s when most women get disappointed to see that the man they love is nowhere to be found and they realize they were the only ones putting in the effort. It is a painful experience that happens to every woman.
The thing is, when someone really wants to be with you – you’ll know it. He would make sure you know his intentions and his interest for you. He will put an effort to let you know how much he cares about you and wants you in his life. He will be there for you whenever you need him because you are important to him.
Contrary, a man who is not that into you will only string you along making you doubt yourself and the relationship. Sure, he may be charming and tell you that you are important to him, but if he is not willing to try and make things happen between you – he is not someone who wants to be with you and you should not waste your time on him.
When a man tries his best to make a good impression, takes you on dates and treats you the way you deserve to be treated, that is a man who really likes you and wants you in his life. A man in love will never make you feel worthless of his love. He will cherish you and love you and you will know.
We are all guilty of going after people that are wrong for us, and that cycle needs to be broken once and for all.
Don’t waste your time with someone who is not sure whether you are the right woman for him. Don’t spend time and effort on someone who is not willing to do the same for you. Relationships are not that complicated, we make them that way.
So, learn to say ‘no’ to every man who doesn’t appreciate you for the wonderful woman that you are.
You can learn a lot about someone by their way of treating you in the beginning stages of the relationship. If he doesn’t try to communicate with you and doesn’t want to form a deeper connection with you, it is time to kick him to the curb.
Because you deserve a man who knows what he has when he has you. A man who accepts you and thinks that you are the most incredible woman that he’s ever had. A man who proudly shows you in public and wants everyone to know that you are his woman. A man who loves you and shows you his love in different ways.
You deserve someone who will be fighting together with you when life gets rough and not someone with whom you feel good one minute only to tear you down the next.
You are a brave, strong and capable woman. Don’t let someone diminish your confidence. Don’t let anyone make you feel less than them.
When you start dating someone, always try to be open-minded and always pay attention to the way they date you. Do they pursue you or not? After all, not every crush is supposed to turn into a relationship, but it is safe to be sure where you stand.
Finally, know your worth and never settle for less than you deserve!