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Life Is Too Short: Stop Giving Your Love To People Who See You As An Option


It might have taken me a lot of time to open my eyes, but I am here. Last year was one of the biggest lessons that I’ve learned in life. Why? I finally learned my worth. I realized that I’ve wasted a lot of my precious time on people who simply aren’t worth it.

So you know what happened next?

I said, “to hell with it”. Life is too damn short anyway.

And so should you!

Why should we give everything away to people who don’t bother to ask what we need?

Why should we lose ourselves over people who simply don’t care about us?

The truth is, it takes two to tango. And it takes two emotionally available people to develop a long-lasting and healthy relationship.

So, here’s my advice to all of you out there.

It can be really hard to break away from someone you’re really into. It can be truly painful to part ways with someone you’ve shared your dreams with. I know that. I’ve been through that agony.

But if the person we’re talking about doesn’t bother to make you a priority in his life, he is just a waste of precious time and energy.

Trust me, you may risk your entire world for him, but if he doesn’t seem to care whether you’re around or not, it is all for nothing. The only way you can help yourself is by cutting those emotional cords with this person. As I said, it will be the most painful experience of your life, but once you do it, you’ll realize that he has been stringing you all along.

You’ll finally see the cage you’ve put yourself in. You’ll finally be free to open your eyes and take a glance at the hell you’ve been living in.

So, do not hesitate any more. If you’ve been waiting for a sign, this is it.

Stop giving a damn about the guy who doesn’t care about you. Stop prioritizing people who don’t even bother to ask you how you’ve been. JUST STOP.

You are made of free-flowing, transcendental, pure energy. That is the most important thing that you have in your life. The most important part of you that screams ‘YOU’. You may think that your time on Earth is the only thing that matters and the only thing that it’s limited, but the truth is, it is your energy that is limited.

And you’re giving it away to the wrong people.

Instead of carefully preserving it and sharing with people who matter, you let your spark fade away by caring about people who will never love you the way you deserve. It is madness if you ask me.

That is why you have to realize that you are the only person who can save yourself. The only one who can decide what’s good for you. What you vibrate and give each day, is exactly what you’ll get in return. The energy you share with the world is the same energy you’ll receive in return.

When you realize this, you’ll start to understand why it is extremely important to be selective of who goes and who stays in your life.

So, I truly wish you all the best. I hope you find the courage to get out of your shell and stand up for yourself. I hope you wake up and make the inevitable change.

But most importantly, I hope you make your life a safe, loving haven where only the ones who really care and love you are allowed.

Stephanie Reeds