A narcissist is ‘a wolf in sheep’s clothing’. He comes into your life disguised as the perfect gentleman, and he knows exactly how to make you fall in love with him. He treats you well, showers you with love and affection, but then when you least expect it, he stabs a knife in your back.
If you think their intentions are clear, think again. The only thing narcissists care about is satisfying their egos.
However, even though we’re surrounded by these people, I believe that there are still some hidden unicorns out there, otherwise known to us as the good, and kind-hearted men. These are people who would do anything to make you feel safe and loved.
Below is a list of things that a pure-hearted man will do for you that no narcissist could even offer to give you.
So, if you’re stuck in a harmful relationship with a narcissistic person, please find a way to get out and do what’s best for you. You deserve to feel happiness and pure love.
1. A GOOD MAN WILL ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOU
This person will never cut you off or ignore you when you speak. He’ll make sure to carefully listen to every word you have to say, and provide you with a kind and honest advice.
2. HE WILL NEVER BEHAVE DISRESPECTFULLY TOWARDS YOU
He will never ever turn into a two-faced jerk for no reason. Because he’s not the person who takes his stress out on innocent people. He will never do such a thing to you.
Instead, if he had a rough day, he’d tell you all about it and apologize to you if he’s not really in the mood for something else. This is something people who care about each other always do.
3. A GOOD MAN IS A MODEST GENTLEMAN
Maintaining a humble side in a world full of narcissistic individuals who constantly brag about their superiority is a hard thing to do. However, if you’ve found your humble Mr. Right, love him and let him know how much you appreciate his beautiful nature.
4. HE WILL SUPPORT YOUR BIGGEST DREAMS
A good-hearted and kind man will never hold you back. Instead, he will motivate you and inspire you to pursue all of your greatest dreams. Even if it’s the silliest thing, he’ll be thrilled to see you succeed in something that lights your soul on fire.
5. A GOOD MAN WILL ALWAYS APOLOGIZE WHEN HE’S WRONG
Unlike narcissists, this man knows what honesty and respect mean. So that’s why he will always apologize when he’s wrong. He’ll never avoid saying “I’m sorry” from the bottom of his heart. He’ll always try to make up for everything he did wrong.
6. HE WILL BRIGHTEN YOUR DAY WHEN YOUR SPIRITS ARE LOW
Whenever you feel hurt and you need someone who could just listen to your pain, he’ll be there. He’ll listen to you, but most importantly he’ll stay strong for you in those times of need.
He’ll pick up your broken pieces and glue them all together. He’ll take care of your soul and love you the way you’ve never been loved before.
7. A GOOD MAN WILL NEVER USE YOUR EMOTIONS AGAINST YOU
He will never use you or your pure emotions against you. Unlike narcissists who will manipulate you and use your emotions to break you down, a good man will embrace those feelings and make you the happiest person alive.
8. AND HE WON’T BE AFRAID TO TELL YOU HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU
But, most importantly he’ll be sincere and upfront about his feelings. Because a kind-hearted and mature man will never be frightened by commitment. On the contrary, a mature and good man will lay his soul in front of you and reveal his deepest secrets.
9. HE WILL NEVER GIVE YOU A REASON TO DOUBT HIM
And because of his unreserved honesty, there will be no reason for you to doubt him. Ever. He’ll show you that compassion and sincerity truly exist.
10. A GOOD MAN WILL BE THERE WHENEVER YOU NEED HIM
He will never leave your side. Whatever happens to you, he’ll always be there. A good man will get out of his way to make you feel safe. Always.
11. HE WILL CONSTANTLY MAKE YOU FEEL BEAUTIFUL AND WANTED
Making you beautiful doesn’t always mean saying the words. It’s in the way he touches you, he looks at you, the way he treats you. A good man will reveal all of his feelings to you. And he won’t be afraid to love you.
12. A GOOD MAN WILL RESPECT YOU AND YOUR BOUNDARIES
Most of all a good man will respect you and your boundaries. He won’t push you into doing something you hate, he won’t treat you differently for it. He’ll just accept the rules you’ve set in your life.
13. HE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE MEANING OF THOSE LITTLE THINGS
Regardless of how small some things might seem, they are a part of our life. So, those little things that everyone has been talking about? Those are tiny moments and parts of our everyday life that mean the world to us.
A good man will never forget the true meaning of those little things. He’ll know exactly what makes your soul flourish.
Image: Christine Lebrasseur