I am someone who believes in love. Real, all-consuming, ever-lasting, life-changing, can’t-live-without-each-other, genuine love. I love deeply. With all my heart. There is no middle ground when it comes to this. I either invest my entire soul in a relationship or I walk away…
I don’t have time for half-assed relationships. I never had. As I said, when comes to love, I’m all in or all out. So, if you choose to enter my life, seduce me, share your deepest secrets with me, give me the key to your heart and pursue me, I will be more than happy to do that same thing for you. In fact, I’ll give you everything that you ever wanted and more.
But, if you think that you could play those childish games on me and string me along until you are interested, you’re about to be disappointed.
I have no time for people who are not completely serious about their intentions. I am not into the thrill of chasing after someone. I don’t appreciate the whole concept of “friend with benefits”. To me, love is a sacred thing.
I work hard for the things that matter to me. I put a lot of effort and time into the things that make me happy. And love… well, love is the most important part of my life. Without love, I feel hopeless. Empty. Miserable. That is why, when it comes to love, I am willing to do everything to make it work. That is, only if the other side shows the same level of commitment.
As I said, I’ve never been a fan of those childish, catch-me-if-you-can games. As a matter of fact, I’ve always been turned on by real love. True Emotion. Genuine hearts. People who know exactly what they’re looking for.
So, spare me the trouble.
If you like me, show it to me. If you want to get to know me, talk to me. If you think that you’re falling in love with me, express your real emotions. Stop running away from intimacy. Stop engaging conversations about meaningless things. Ask me how I’ve been feeling, instead. Ask me what sets my heart on fire. Ask me what makes my soul sing. Ask me what scares me the most. Ask me what I hate. What I like. Get to know the real me.
If you want to be with me, stop being so passive and scared about it and make the step. Stop hiding behind your text messages and funny comments. Stop acting immature. Stop playing hot and cold. I know exactly what I want from life. And wasting my time on a person who wonders if they like me is not it. I have better things to do than to question myself if I made the right choice or not. When it comes to love, I need stability.
So, please. If you are not ready to be there for me, leave.
If you are not ready to love me for real, stop stringing me alone.
If you can’t handle me, let me go.
If you can’t take the time to really get to know who I am, you are not the one for me.
If you can’t imagine a future besides me, you are just wasting my time.
If you are too afraid to open your heart and let me in, we’re not meant for each other.
It is scary, I know. But that is the beauty of it. Only those who are willing to fight alongside their partners and face their fears together succeed at it. If you can’t be that person for me, leave and let me find my happiness somewhere else.