Life is hard. That’s the reality. And women were expected to live by certain norms and fulfill many societal expectations that are mainly old-fashioned and don’t go well with today’s reality. Every person is different with their own unique journey. You and I should be free to choose what we think is right for us without fear of being judged by other people.
You shouldn’t allow others’ opinions to blur your vision and stop you from being yourself. You should celebrate your nature and not let anyone mold you into their expectations of you.
Let go of anyone who expects you to live up to a certain standard of theirs, and go on, living your life while embracing your uniqueness. Because you are amazing just as you are.
This is your life. This is your journey. It is your mind, your body, and your soul. Own them and do whatever the hell you want to do without caring about what others think of it.
You only have one life and it is yours only. It is no one else’s business how you live it. Honestly, it is hard. It takes a lot of confidence, bravery, and courage to be able to ignore everyone’s comments and just focus on you and your path. It is so hard to stay true to yourself while people around you are constantly trying to dim your light and break you, making you feel like a failure.
But, guess what? They have nothing on you!
Find the things that bring you happiness and joy and stick to them. Find your passions, things that make you feel alive and fill your heart will love and joy. Then, say “f*ck you, I am focusing on me” and do whatever the hell your heart yearns for. Only you know what makes you feel happy and fulfilled. Only you know what’s best for you.
You will not get it right the first time. You will make many mistakes. You will take the wrong turns. But, as long as you are following your heart, you are on the right path. Don’t doubt that.
After all, by overcoming the difficulties you get stronger. Mistakes are there to teach you all you need to know about yourself and your life and lead you where you are meant to be.
And when you are finally in that place when you are truly yourself and you don’t care about what anyone thinks of you – then you will experience a new level of happiness and fulfillment.
When you follow your heart and do whatever you want to do, you will always be winning. So, shine on, honey! And don’t let anyone full your light. Not even you!