In life, we often wander from one relationship to another, desperately searching for our Prince Charming.
Blinded by the bitterness of making all the wrong choices, we often fall into despair and give up thinking that life isn’t fair.
But, you know what they say… The sky is always the darkest before the sun comes up.
And it is when we least expect it that a new person comes into our lives and changes our whole reality from its very core.
Just like that, once in a blue moon, comes a man who makes it all different. A man who sweeps you off your feet and carries answers to all of your questions. A person whose touch makes you more certain than ever, and a person whose kiss lets you know that he’s the one.
Here are 5 unmistakable signs that you’ve found yourself a boyfriend who makes you certain that he’s your forever after:
1. YOU HAVE ISSUES (BUT YOU ALWAYS FIND A WAY TO RESOLVE THEM)
Every relationship faces obstacles. So, just like anyone else you also face difficulties. There are days when you fight, there are days when you cry, days when you can’t stand each other. But, whatever happens, you know that in the end, it will all be settled. Having troubles in paradise is not something new. It is how you choose to deal with them that matters the most.
2. YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS BASED ON A BEAUTIFUL FRIENDSHIP
I’m a true believer that a relationship based on real friendship is a relationship that is likely to last a lifetime. When you are connected with a person’s soul, when you know their heartbeat, when you recognize the look in their eyes, that’s a bond that is truly worthy of preserving. Mutual understanding, mutual joy and mutual respecting are the values that create the basic foundation of one healthy and prosperous relationship.
3. YOU HELP EACH OTHER GROW
When you find someone who would give everything to help you grow, open your wings and fly away with the desire to explore the unknown, you can be certain that you’ve found a person who is who’ll always stay there beside you, no matter what.
Valuing each other’s interests and respecting each other’s unique perspective is an essential quality for a happy and long-lasting relationship.
4. YOU VISUALIZE YOUR FUTURE TOGETHER
I have always believed that the test of a good and honest partner is whether or not you could see your future with him. When you come across a person who doesn’t make you think, but rather makes you certain of the relationship you two share, then it’s safe to say that you’ve hit the life jackpot.
If you can easily visualize your future together and see him as the father of your children, you have something truly worthy. Hold on it.
5. YOU DO EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER TO MAKE THIS WORK
Despite everything, you have to want to marry this person. You shouldn’t assume that the next step is marriage just because society says it’s the right thing to do.
That’s why, if he is the one, you’ll know right away. If he is the right one, you’ll marry this person because there’s simply no one in this world who could ever take their place.