I know you’ve been hurt many times. You were in relationships with guys who weren’t worthy of your love. Guys who took you for granted and who never appreciated you and the things you did for them.
They never acknowledged the sacrifices you made for them and the fact that you always put them first. You made their feelings, needs, and problems your priority. You spoiled them. You taught them that you were the go-to person for anything.
You give your all to them. Through thick and thin, you were always there for them.
And instead of treating you with the same amount of love and respect, they treated you as their inferior. They believed you were naïve, too emotional, needy, clingy. They never realized that you can’t love in any other way, but deeply, unconditionally, and with every part of yourself.
You gave them way too many chances because you believed that they’d change. That if they felt your pure, deep love, they could see the person you truly were. But, all you did was making them get comfortable depending on your forgiveness. They got used to hurting you because they knew you’d always be there to forgive and give them another chance.
They made you feel unworthy.
They always put the blame on you for whatever went wrong in the relationship. You were their perfect scapegoat.
They made you doubt your abilities, strength, and value. They made you feel like nothing you ever did was good enough for them.
For them, you were never beautiful enough, smart enough, good enough, or interesting enough. They often made you feel like you have to compare yourself and compete with other girls.
Your emotions, kindness, unselfishness, and the power to love with all your heart and body didn’t matter to them. They were good to you only when they needed something from you or when they needed you to boost their ego.
So, they manipulated and played little mind games with you.
They never bothered to stop and think that the way they treated you was slowly shattering your hopes and breaking your heart in countless pieces.
You lost hope that someone who would accept and love you for who you truly are would appear.
You lost hope that a man who would make you feel loved would come along.
I know you probably find this hard to believe after everything you’ve been through, but trust me, there will come a man who will see the beauty of your soul the moment he sees you.
This man will never make you wonder whether he loves you or not. He’ll never leave you with mixed feelings and unsettled mind. He’ll make sure you know how important you’re to him.
You’ll never have to wonder whether this man is aware of your worth. Your kindness, unselfishness, compassion for others and love for him will be the reason he’ll wonder every single day what he’s done to deserve such a person like you are.
He’ll appreciate everything you do for him, and he’ll know you’re worth every effort.
He’ll never give up on you.
No matter how stressed, tired or lost you feel, his comforting hug and warm touch will make you feel like home. With this guy you’ll never feel lonely again.
With this man, you’ll feel safe to express your feelings without worrying he might lose his temper. He’ll encourage you to open up and share everything that’s going on in your mind with him. He’ll never judge you, no matter how different your opinions are from his. With this man, you’ll feel heard and understood.
With this man, you won’t have to pretend to be someone you’re not because he’ll acknowledge and cherish you for who you are – with all your qualities and virtues and flaws and quirks as well. Unlike others, he’ll never try to change you or make you feel ashamed of your insecurities and imperfections because to him, you’ll be perfect just the way you are.
He won’t be reluctant or ashamed to wear his heart on his sleeve. He’ll make you feel like you’re the happiest, most loved, and most important person in the world.
He’ll shower you with attention, love, and compliments, but most importantly, you’ll know that he really feels that way about you.
This man will prove that he’s worthy of your attention, trust, love, and respect.
He’ll always consider you and ask for your opinions when making decisions that affect both of you.
He’ll encourage you to pursue your goals, dreams, and passions because he’ll believe in your abilities and mental strength. He’ll give you new perspectives on life. With his actions, he’ll inspire you to grow personally and professionally and become a better version of yourself.
This man will be proud of you and your achievements and he’ll be more than willing to share that with the whole world.
And of course, like other couples, you, too, will have good times and not-so-good times. Challenges and unexpected situations may appear even when you expect them the least.
But, don’t worry because he’ll stick with you no matter what.
He’ll always be there to listen to your problems and give you advice. When you feel sad or going through a tough time, he’ll be your crying shoulder and your greatest cheerleader. He’ll never leave you to deal with your problems on your own.
You’ll never have to worry whether he’ll give up on you like the others did because he’ll show you where you stand in his life. He’ll include you in all his plans for the future. This man won’t be able to imagine his life without you in it.
He’ll show you that love doesn’t have to be tough, that it doesn’t have to hurt.
Maybe you find this hard to believe, but trust me, there will come a man who won’t need to lose you first so as to realize your worth.