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10 Reasons Why The Longer I’m Single, The Surer I Am That I Don’t Want A Relationship


Regardless of what anyone says, single life is awesome! Sometimes a person can forget how happy and fulfilling single life is, especially when they’ve been in a relationship for a long time.

Here are 10 reasons why I prefer rolling solo.

1. I Am Having A Lot Of Fun On My Own

I’ve always been able to have fun on my own. I’ve never felt a need to have another person with me to be happy and fulfilled. I am completely happy and fulfilled on my own. I can also proudly say that I am never bored. And when I need to socialize, I have many friends and colleagues.

2. I Like The Calmness And The Simplicity

I realized that living a single life is so much easier because I can do whatever I want to do without having to navigate the ups and downs of being in a relationship. This drama-free life makes me feel calm and peaceful.

3. I Am More Productive And Focused

When I am in a relationship, I often let the emotions overrule me and I tend to always choose spending time with my partner instead of focusing on my work or doing the important things for me. Because I tend to forget about me and my needs and focus on my partner’s instead, being single gets me back on track to improve my life.

4. I Like Exploring New Things And Going On Adventures

There is nothing better than traveling alone and exploring new things for a person like me who really enjoys their single life. I can be selfish and follow my heart, go to places I love, and do whatever the hell I want.

5. I Enjoy My Freedom

Singlehood is giving me a great deal of freedom and autonomy over my life. I can decide to move to France if I want to because no one is tying me down. And honestly, I am in love with this independent lifestyle.

6. I Have More Control Over My Own Money

I like deciding where I spend my money. I can choose to save it for something or treating myself with an expensive dress and jewelry. I earn my own money, I pay my own bills, and I don’t like having to run those decisions by anyone else or feeling inadequate about making less than my partner.

7. I Like Having Time To Grow And Improve Myself

Self-improvement and growth can take a great amount of time and energy. That’s one of the reasons why I like to be single because I always have time for myself.

8. I Have Time To Focus On My Other Important Relationships

Many of us don’t have the emotional and mental energy to deal with a lot of people. This means that many of us don’t have much time and energy to focus on maintaining all the relationships that are important to them. However, when I am single, I can spend more time with my friends and family.

9. I Feel Empowered

I have never felt as strong and powerful in a relationship as I do when I am single. Living the single life forces me to be strong and independent. I am completely in charge of my life and because of it, I make brave decisions who are better for me.

10. I Am The Happiest I Have Ever Been

The truth is, I am happy being single, so why would I give that up?

Mary Wright