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You Have Your Whole Life To Find Your Soulmate – Don’t Settle For Less Than You Desire


If you already have your destined person beside you, hold on to them tight. If their hugs warm not only your skin but also your heart, keep them. If the person you’re with understands your soul more then you understand yourself, cherish them. If they give you the inexplicable feeling inside your tummy, hold on to them.

Create a deep connection with them. Undress your naked soul in front of them. Love them. Appreciate them. Respect them. Make love to their mind. Spend an eternity with them.

But, if you still haven’t crossed your path with this person, then be alone until you do.

Stay single for as long as you need to.

Don’t be afraid to admit that you’re still looking for the real person.

Don’t be scared to get out of your own shadow and face the reality.

You are single. So, what?

Don’t you dare let them talk you into doing something you hate. Don’t you dare let society pressure you into a relationship that doesn’t make your heart skip a beat Don’t fool yourself that being in a relationship is ultimately the only thing that matters in life.

Because it’s not.

I know what it feels like to choose the wrong person and spend 3 years on them.

So, please, let my experience guide you.

It’s better to be alone until you find someone worth fighting for. Someone who shares the same values and ideals with you. Someone who observes the world from the same colorful glasses. Someone who makes you feel things you never even knew existed.

It’s better to be single than settle for someone who treats you like a second option, or someone you treat like a second option. It makes no point otherwise.

It’s better to be alone than date a person who needs time to reply to your texts or answer your calls. It’s simply pointless to be with a person who doesn’t feel the need to see you, or someone who doesn’t picture his future with you.

You have your entire life to find a person who will be right for you.

Until then, don’t forget to love yourself. Don’t forget to get out of the shell you’ve created for yourself, breath in, open your arms to the possibilities in life, experience, experiment and make mistakes.

Stop beating yourself up. Stop regretting your decision to cut off all the toxic people from your life. Stop regretting your decision to end a relationship that was clearly going nowhere. Stop convincing yourself that you’re single because of your wrong choices.

Just stop.

You are allowed to live your life the way you want to. Whether you want to date, kiss a lot of frogs, be with all the wrong people, cut off people who don’t deserve a chance, give a chance to someone who seems like a nice person, it’s up to you.

You are allowed to do whatever you want. Even stay single. Up until that very moment when you meet someone who is worthy of your love.

So, please. Don’t settle for anything less than you desire. You have your whole life to fall in love and find your soulmate – make sure you love yourself first.

It’s all that really matters.

Stephanie Reeds