It used to bother me when people came back to me after deciding to leave me. I admit, every time someone left, I used to wait for them to come back because they always did come back sooner or later.
Now I know better. Now I want someone who doesn’t need to leave to realize how much they care about me. Now I want someone who will stay.
Because we all deserve someone who will be there when things get difficult. Someone who will never leave when the road gets bumpy. Someone who won’t leave no matter what. Someone who chooses us every day.
That’s why next time someone wants to come back in your life – you show them the door. Because…
You deserve to be with someone who will never leave you alone. Someone with whom you will be comfortable to tell them everything without fear that they will leave you. You deserve someone who is willing to go into the darkness with you and accept you for who you are, flaws and all.
You deserve to be with someone who won’t leave you when you tell them you love them. You deserve to be with someone who appreciates your efforts and sees your value. Someone who makes you happy and allows you to make them happy. Someone who is on the same page as you when it comes to your relationship.
You deserve to be with someone who will stay with you through thick and thin. You deserve someone who won’t get scared at everything you have to offer. Someone who will want your love and passion, not someone who will run from your emotions.
You deserve someone who won’t treat you as disposable. Someone to whom you won’t be a backup plan. Someone who won’t leave you when they find someone better. Someone to whom looks and material things are not as important as what’s in a person.
Dump anyone who needs to explore their options before they realize your worth. Dump anyone who needs to lose you to understand how much they “care” about you.
You deserve someone who will never leave you when life knocks you down; when you are tired of everything when you are feeling lost and confused; when everything gets complicated and difficult to handle. You deserve to have someone by your side who will believe in you when you don’t believe in yourself. Someone who will support you and motivate you to live up to your potential.
Someone who will remind you every day how special you are and how lucky they are to have you. Someone who recognizes your strength and appreciates you for that. Someone who knows you are a survivor and will never put themselves in a position to lose you.
Because they want to fight all the battles with you.
Because they want to build a family with you.
Because you are the most important person in their life.
Because a life without you in it just doesn’t make a sense to them.
Choose a person like this over the one who you wish would come back. Because the truth is, if they really cared about you, they would have never left in the first place.