It is one of the biggest mysteries of the dating world. Why do independent, strong and beautiful women have the worst of luck when it comes to relationships? Why do they fall for men who are wrong for them over and over again?
If you think that training your mind to never fail or your heart to never tremble is easy – you are wrong. Yes, you are a strong, independent, and incredible woman. Yet, your heart is not made of stone and sometimes you can’t help but fall in love with a man who doesn’t deserve you.
Your honest heart believes that they are as genuine as you are, no matter how many times you have been disappointed.
As a strong woman, you are independent. You are a hurricane of courage and bravery. There is nothing that you can’t do. When you want something, you get it. You are incredibly smart. You live your life to the fullest and you don’t allow people to take advantage of you.
Until you do. You meet a man with whom you connect on a deeper level. You find him attractive too and being with him gives you butterflies and fills your heart with hope.
Because when someone promises you the love and happiness you want, you (sometimes) choose to believe them. And you accept him, not because you are naïve and stupid for falling for his games and tricks. No. You are neither weak nor dumb for trusting him and believing in his love for you.
You are not a fool for believing and hoping that maybe this time could be different. That this man is different.
Your incredible strength can be really unwavering. But don’t forget that you are only human. It is okay to feel wanted and needed. You have a passion in you that at times it is hard to handle.
When you love, you love deeply. And you never lose hope in love, no matter how many times you have been broken.
The thing is, you never meant to fall for someone that would break your heart. You never meant to fall for a charming smile and honey words. It is not your fault. It is not your fault for always believing in the best of people.
Your nature is to love hard. Your nature is to feel hard and to have faith in others no matter their past mistakes. That’s what makes you an incredible and genuine woman. You are real, and you expect only real love.
You are a strong woman because even though you make mistakes, you learn from them! You are a strong woman because you love hard, and you break harder. You are a strong woman because even though you had your heart shattered in pieces many times, you still believe that someday you will find the love you deserve.