I see you’ve been struggling lately. You haven’t been yourself for quite some time now. You are no longer the brave and confident person ready to take on the world.
Right now, you feel stuck. You feel like something is wrong but you don’t know what. You feel like you should have made different life choices because you are not where you dreamed to be. If you feel this way, please remember that this is normal. These periods happen to every one of us and are a part of this journey called life.
This may be a period of learning lessons for you. A period of growth. Because you will never get where you are supposed to be without feeling unsettled and uncomfortable first. Everyone that is destined to make great things in life must go through difficult periods and come out as a survivor.
Just take a moment and think about all the challenges you’ve faced so far. Think about all the times you almost gave up but decided to take another chance and it worked. Think about all the times you thought you couldn’t do something, but you did it in the end.
Why do you want to stop now? Even though you may think like nothing is going in your favor and you have nowhere to go and nothing to do, erase those toxic thoughts from your head and keep going. Keep fighting. Keep clearing your path from all the mess you’ve found yourself in.
Don’t keep yourself stuck. If you don’t like where you are right now, change something. If your job is not fulfilling you, it’s time to look for a new job. If your partner doesn’t make you happy, perhaps it’s time to end the relationship. If there is anything in your life that makes you feel anxious and stressed, you should focus on that thing and change it. You owe that much to yourself.
The truth is, sometimes we outgrow people and things we love. We outgrow partners, jobs, relationships, living situations, friends, even family members. But, the beautiful thing about us as people is that we can move. We are smart and capable enough to shape our lives the way we see fit. It is always up to us. Our destiny is in our hands. There is a solution for every situation, for every problem… if we are willing to try.
And if you don’t know what you want or where you want to be in life, be patient and let the things take its natural course. Everything will fall into place sooner or later, don’t worry. Because sometimes, things and people we don’t expect can make our life better. That’s why you should never stop believing that everything happens for a reason and that in the end, you’ll end up where you are meant to be.
So, keep going. Keep struggling. And never, never give up. Your fight will be worth it, I promise.