I know it’s hard for you to explain the reality that you live in. I know that it’s probably even harder to go back to that initial moment when you first laid your eyes on him and immediately fell in love. It must be truly gut-wrenching.
But here’s the truth…
I am not going to make it any easier for you. For your own good.
If you are still reading this, it means that you’re probably disappointed from his games or exhausted from deciphering his actions and you are desperate to find your way out…
Well, I am truly glad you knocked on this door.
Welcome and make yourself at home.
As I said, I am not going to try and sugar-coat it for you. The truth may be a hard pill to swallow, but it is the only thing that matters. And you, my dear, deserve to know it.
It’s true. You are the only one responsible for giving him a chance and making that mistake in the first place. But you are also the only one responsible for fixing those mistakes. You know why? You are the only person that can help you.
So, here it is.
When a man really wants to be with you, he’ll do anything in his power to pursue you.
If he’s interested in you, no obstacle will stand in his way. No distance will be too far for him, no timing will wrong for him. He’ll bend over backward, he’ll get out of his way, he’ll change, he’ll overcome every obstacle along the road, he will do whatever it takes to make you his woman.
It’s really that simple.
When men want something, they go after it.
Especially if we’re talking about a love interest and the woman in question is the love of their lives. In that case, they are unstoppable. They would keep on pursuing her, even after they’ve got her.
But when they’re not into someone, well… They’ll make millions of excuses as to why they’re always busy and can’t find the time to see you.
They’ll be swamped with work, always busy doing something else, too tired to go out, already hanging out with their pals, taking a shower, having something urgent, getting their car fixed and whatnot… All of this will be always more important than you.
Heck, EVERYTHING will be more important than you.
I am sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but you deserve to get your heartbroken by the truth. At least this heartbreak will heal and teach you the lessons you need to know in order to keep moving forward.
If you, my dear, are his top priority he wouldn’t treat you this way. If he wants to be with you, he would do everything to get close to you. He will find time for you, no matter how busy he is. If he really loves you like he says he does, he wouldn’t string you away for so long.
Don’t be that woman who believes in these manipulative games. Don’t be just another notch on his bedpost. Don’t be just another victim. Don’t let his sugary, sweet lies get you carried away.
Let go of him. Get that through your head and accept the damn truth.
If a man doesn’t care about you as much as you care about him, he is probably not that into you…