When it comes to love and relationships, there are many people who get into a relationship and then try to change their partner, to mold them into the person they want them to be. That is not love. People who want to change their partner are not in love with their partner, but with the idea of having someone, of being in a relationship.
When two people are in love with each other, they accept their person as they are. They don’t try to change them.
We are all different and unique human beings. And when we are in a relationship, we should do our best to understand each other and make it work instead of forcing our partner to change. The perfect relationship doesn’t exist. We make it happen through effort, love, mutual understanding, trust, and compromise. We must understand that no one is ever going to behave the way we want them to nor we should force them.
True love is when we accept and love our partner for who they are.
When you do realize that you can’t change people, then you can be free of expectations and allow them to be themselves. That’s how relationships are built: by working on understanding instead of judging and criticizing.
And the more you work on bettering the communication between you and your partner, the more you two will be connected and your union will become stronger each day. You will both push each other forward instead of holding each other back.
When you have an open mind and you know what truly matters, you can grow together as a couple and as individuals. That is a union that is awakened and that will last.