Men, if you ever have the privilege of dating a smart, strong, confident, and self-respecting woman, know that this will be the strongest and most fulfilling relationship that you’ll ever have in life. To keep her in your life forever, make sure she never has to put up with the things listed below in your relationship. Because this kind of woman doesn’t tolerate immature and irresponsible men.
Here are 7 things strong and self-respecting women will never put up with in a relationship:
1. DISRESPECT
A strong, smart, and confident woman knows who she is and is aware of her worth. She’s aware of every obstacle and struggle she’s had to face in order to become the person she is today. And she won’t let anyone disrespect her or what she’s accomplished in life. She won’t tolerate being judged or belittled.
If you make the mistake of disrespecting her, don’t doubt that she is going to respect herself enough to leave you.
2. BEING CONTROLLED
A smart, tough, and self-respecting woman is an independent woman. She lives her life in accordance with her own beliefs, values, and rules. And she can’t stand control in any form.
So, if you try to interfere with her decisions or tell her what she can and what she can’t do, know she won’t think twice about walking away. This kind of woman will never let anyone control her and her actions.
3. APOLOGIES
We all make mistakes and that’s okay. Smart and self-respecting women do accept apologies. But, they also know when it’s time to stop accepting them and tell you goodbye. They know when you don’t deserve their forgiveness.
4. BROKEN PROMISES.
When you promise to take her out to dinner, do that. When you promise to accompany her to her best friend’s birthday party, do that. Keep your promises. Stay true to your word. Show her that you truly mean what you say.
5. LIES
A strong and smart woman always tells it like it is. She’ll tell you the truth even when it may be too harsh and painful for you to accept it. Because she values honesty the most.
This kind of woman can’t stand lies and she can even detect them from a mile. So, if she notices that you’re trying to lie to her, don’t expect her to forgive you. Don’t expect her to give you a second chance. Because once you break her trust, you lose her forever.
6. JEALOUSY
Jealousy, especially one which is obsessive and irrational, is not a sign of love – it’s a sign of insecurity. A smart and self-respecting woman can’t waste her time trying to convince you that she only has eyes for you. She can’t waste her time trying to convince you that you’re the one her heart beats so wildly for. She can’t waste her time trying to convince you that she deserves your trust.
So, if you really want to keep a woman of this kind in your life forever, make sure you overcome your insecurities and learn to control your pangs of jealousy.
7. NEGLECT
Who doesn’t crave attention?
A strong, smart, and confident woman will expect you to shower her with attention and affection since she is willing to treat you in the same way. Because when this woman loves, she loves from the bottom of her heart. She loves with all of her soul. She loves deeply. Selflessly. Unconditionally.
So, if she ever notices that you’re neglecting her or that you have little or no regard for her feelings, needs, and desires, know she won’t think twice about walking away and letting go of you.
