Aries, you love living your life to the fullest! Your personal space and independence are the things that you cherish the most and you won’t let anyone take them away from you. You are not scared to live your life alone. In fact, sometimes you believe you will be better like that.
Your biggest fear is having someone restrict you in some shape or form and slow you down. You are terrified of losing the fire that burns so bright inside you. But the truth is, deep inside, you want a committed relationship. You want to love and be loved with the same passion and intensity. You want a healthy and secure relationship in which you will have plenty of room to breathe because you fear someone entering your life and changing your routine.
Taurus, you are very stubborn and so accustomed to your life as it is that you despise change. You live so peacefully and happily in your comfort zone and you can stay there forever. But your comfort zone has also become your barrier from the world and people as you don’t let anyone in. You are so self-reliant that you fear losing your independence and relying on someone else to make you happy and fulfilled.
You may appear heartless and standoffish but, on the inside, you are a hopeless romantic that believes in true love. When it comes to relationships, you only prefer committed and long-term ones. You don’t date around. You don’t do casual dating. You want all or nothing. That’s why you fear to get your heart broken because you’ve learned the hard way that not all people are as genuine as you are.
Gemini, you are so unpredictable! You constantly change your mind due to your insatiable curiosity for experiencing new things and your zest for life. That’s why you are afraid of falling in love. Because you don’t want to be imprisoned by it. You love flirting and meeting new people and at the same time, you hate being stuck in one place. You are afraid of the thought of being committed to one person because you like keeping your options open and you don’t want to think whether the person next to you is the right one.
You always thrive for excitement and new experiences and that’s why you are terrified that falling in love with someone will bring stillness in your life. You want to constantly grow and expand as a person. Your rich social life is sacred to you and you are not willing to give it up or give yourself up for the sake of being in a relationship.
Oh, Cancer… you are the most sensitive and affectionate sign of all the zodiac. You have a nurturing nature that is always there for others. You are not scared to show people how much you love and care for them. When you fall in love, you love with all your being and you give your all to them. You are very trustworthy and dedicated and your partner should consider themselves lucky to have you in their life.
However, this empathic nature of yours has put you in the arms of toxic partners who abused your good intentions. They broke your heart and that’s why now you are afraid to love again. You are afraid to get your heart broken again. Therefore, you are also scared of baring your soul to someone and being vulnerable because you know how fake people can be and only take without giving anything in return.
Leo, everything you do, you do with love and passion! Your world is filled with love and romance. You fall in love quickly because you adore the idea of being in love. However, finding someone compatible and staying in a relationship with them is where it gets tricky. You fear being disappointed and that’s why you are incredibly picky when it comes to choosing your partner. You have very high standards that are probably pushing away possible matches.
You want to be in a reciprocal relationship. You want to be seen, appreciated, and adored. You crave emotional connection and devotion and a lack of it may cause you to fall out of love. You are terrified of giving your heart and soul to someone only to having to separate again due to their lack of making you feel loved.
Virgo, you only reveal the parts of you that you want others to see. Your walls are so high that you almost never let anyone so close to you to know the real you. Your analytical and overly critical nature makes you sometimes hard to deal with, but you are only being hard on yourself. Your desire for perfectionism has attracted many lost and toxic souls to you who needed saving.
That’s where your true fear lies – in the possibility of experiencing love in the truest form and what would that mean to you. The mere idea of having to open to someone and being vulnerable scares you shitless. You are afraid that your partner may not like the not-so-good parts of you that you are hiding deep inside you. Intimacy scares you because, in your belief, everything has to be perfect and so do you. However, you forget that not you, not me, not anyone is or ever will be perfect.
Libra, you are a romantic sign that dreams of true love and being swept off their feet. You fear being alone and that’s the reason why you tend to get yourself involved in casual flings. However, finding your true partner is one of your most important priorities for you. You want to be in a stable and committed relationship with a partner with whom you will share a deep bond – a complete submission of mind, body, and soul.
Your greatest fear is intimacy and revealing yourself to the other person because you are so preoccupied with your flaws and insecurities. Your charming nature makes you great at small talk, meeting new people and forming new connections, however, you fear getting deeper than that. You are scared shitless of loneliness that instead of trying to find love, you are pushing it away. You run from love, so you won’t be abandoned and left out in the cold.
Scorpio, your number one fear is being betrayed by the person you love. You are naturally suspicious of everyone, but the fear of being betrayed in love is greater than anything because it is also accompanied by fears of abandonment and rejection. You want to be able to trust your partner 100 percent, and yet you are so mysterious yourself. Behind your ‘calm, cool, and collected’ exterior, there is an ocean of depth, emotions, skeletons, secrets, and thoughts that only you have access to. Because you fear revealing your true self to others and having them broke your trust and heart.
You are very intense, Scorpio, especially when it comes to love. You don’t accept anything mediocre. You don’t half-ass things. You are brutally honest, and you always tell like it is. You’ve been hurt in the past and that’s why now you are afraid to open up to someone again and losing yourself in the relationship. You fear happiness because you fear getting hurt again. Amazing opportunity and happiness can be in front of your eyes and yet you may not see them because you tend to self-sabotage yourself and everything good that happens to you out of paranoia.
Sagittarius, your energy, curiosity, and your insatiable desire for living life to the fullest has made you crave more exciting experiences and adventures than true love. For you, your biggest fear is living a boring life. You desire constant excitement thus you are scared shitless of having to settle down for a relationship and the routine that you think comes with it. That’s why you always run before you get too attached to someone.
You associate commitment with monotony and boredom and that’s why you are terrified of getting yourself involved in it and having to give up traveling, meeting new people and learning new things. And while you may have a reputation of being a player, you are an idealist when it comes to love, and you don’t want to get involved with emotional manipulators and toxic people.
Your self-control, focus, responsibility, discipline, and self-mastery are astounding! You fear love because, in your opinion, love is always an unpredictable mess, something that doesn’t have a place in your perfectly composed world. You don’t want to allow someone into your life only to make havoc out of it and make you feel like you somehow failed (something that you also hate).
You are very realistic and when it comes to love, you are especially careful, and you don’t wear your rose-tinted glasses. When you are in a relationship you want it to be for the long haul, you want to see a future with your partner, otherwise, you won’t even start. For you, love is an investment of time, money, energy, and effort. You always want to be perceived as strong and therefore, you fear losing the upper hand when it comes to the matters of the heart.
Aquarius, your need for freedom and alone time is great and sometimes, you feel like falling in love will limit you in some way. You are extremely committed and loyal when you are in a relationship and while you give your partner all the freedom they need, you expect the same in return. You fear being smothered in a relationship.
You are scared that you are never going to find someone who will understand you and your individuality. Someone who will understand how much you need to have a space for doing your own things. Your gut instinct never fails you, even though you are always guided by logic and not emotions because you fear that love will make you look like a crazy and stupid person. You fear trusting someone and opening yourself for love because you’ve been hurt before and you don’t want to go through it again.
Pisces, your greatest fear is being taken advantage of. You are very generous and sensitive, and you are always there to help everyone in need without expecting anything in return. That’s why you attract troubled and tortured souls that are in dire need of healing. You don’t have very strong boundaries and your naïve selfless nature immediately wants to rescue them and love them, but unfortunately, those souls you help heal are oftentimes the same ones that end up breaking your heart.
You are hopeless romantic that wants to find “the one.” You want the fairytale kind of love. The everlasting one. This is what makes you terrified of love because you know that you are prone to getting yourself attached to someone too easily and unfortunately, it is usually with the wrong person. And now, you want to avoid getting hurt at all costs.