The narcissistic woman is just as dangerous as the male narcissist.
She lacks empathy, has an excessive need of entitlement and a massive thirst for interpersonal exploitation. The female narcissist is not just self-absorbed and vain. She is also a cruel covert bully who captures and mesmerizes other people into her web of toxicity and abuse.
So, how do you know that you are dealing with a malignant narcissistic woman? Watch out for these 4 revealing signs.
1. SHE HAS A SADISTIC SENSE OF PLEASURE AT SOMEONE ELSE’S PAIN
This is maybe one of the subtlest signs that you are dealing with a dangerous narcissistic woman. This woman enjoys bringing others down. She is happy and fulfilled when she watches her formerly confident victim look devastated, defeated, and depleted.
She lacks empathy and she is ruthless when it comes to first idealizing and then discarding and devaluing her victims without second thinking. This woman cannot commit to a healthy and emotionally satisfying relationship, and that’s why she takes pleasure in sabotaging the other people’s friendships and relationships.
2. SHE HAS AN OBSESSION WITH HER APPEARANCE AS WELL AS HIGH LEVEL OF SUPERFICIALITY AND MATERIALISM
Most female narcissists actually fit the “femme fatale” description very well. Many of these women are exceptionally attractive and good looking and they wickedly use their attractiveness and their sexuality to get what they want and remain in power.
Female narcissists love money, but they love more spending it excessively. This woman is a highly materialistic woman who adores herself and wants to be always surrounded by extravagant and expensive things.
On the other hand, for the more cerebral narcissistic woman, the woman in question may use her accomplishments, degrees, and credentials to terrorize and control others.
3. SHE HAS AN OVERT DISREGARD FOR THE BOUNDARIES OF INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS, INCLUDING HER OWN
She is someone who is likely to have many admirers, exes included who never seem to let her go. And also, complete strangers that she lures into her life to invoke jealousy in her romantic partner. In turn, she creates and gets involved in many love triangles.
This woman boasts about being the object of desire and rejoices in getting attention from men. Infidelity is a concept that she knows too well and often practices it remorsefully. She also crosses the boundaries of her female friendships by seducing the partners of her friends.
4. SHE HAS AN INSATIABLE NEED FOR COMPETITIVENESS DUE TO PATHOLOGICAL ENVY AND THE NEED TO BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION
The female malignant narcissist is a woman who is threatened by anyone who she thinks is more successful than her. She believes that those people who threaten her (whether it is through their personality, appearance, status, resources, success, desirability or all of these) must be extinguished.
She won’t stop at anything until she raises “above” them. She will act all loving and charming around them, but underneath she bears an undercurrent of rage, envy, and contempt.
Have you been involved with a woman like this? Did you get out of the relationship ‘alive’? Please share with us your story in the comment section.