You deserve to be loved. You deserve someone who will make you feel like you belong just by the way they look at you and you see your true reflection in their eyes.
But, not only that. You deserve to have someone who will love you fiercely and passionately. You deserve to be loved hard.
You deserve a partner who will look at you as if you are magic. As if you are something they’ve never seen before. Shimmering. Light. Exuberant. Majestic. True sparkly magic.
A partner who chooses date nights with you that include a romantic dinner, fireplace with no clothes and the type of mind-blowing sex that only happens when two souls are intertwined together and there’s true recognition between them. The kind of mesmerizing and out-of-the-world intercourse that occurs only when your deep conversation is the foreplay.
A partner who craves to learn everything about you. Who wants to know all your worries, fears, insecurities, doubts, and soft spots. And they love you even more because of them.
A partner who cherishes you and loves you with a love that is fierce and deep.
You deserve a partner who wants to see you the moment you open your eyes with your halfway opened eyes and grumpy expression on your face. A partner who desires you before, during, and after you’ve had your first coffee in the morning. A partner who loves you and thinks you are the most beautiful person in the world even if you’ve fussed over your look before in the mirror.
A person who worships you. Someone who thinks you are the most extraordinary human being on the planet.
And when you think that you don’t deserve such a love, a love that seems too good to be true, they are there to remind you that you deserve that and more.
Because you are amazing. Because you are lovable. Because they cannot stop loving you. Because you make everything better.
Marry the person who is there for you whenever you need them. The one you can always count on. The one who makes you forget all about the scary questions of ‘what if’ – “What if I get fired?” “What if my parents die?” “What if I lose everything?”
A partner who wants to know how your day went. Someone who listens to you actively and vigorously. Someone who is present and who knows exactly when to hold you close and protect you from the storms inside you. Someone who will be always there to remind you that it is okay to feel whatever you are feeling.
A person who understands that it’s the little things that matter the most.
And they are always there to dance with you, give you a massage after a long day, hug you, watch your favorite tv show with you, or tell a perfect joke in the right time just to make you laugh when you seem nervous and stressed out.
Someone who brings you a thoughtful present and cooks you a nice meal not because it’s your anniversary but because it’s Monday.
Finally, make sure you marry someone who when the inevitably difficult times come, they will take your hand while looking deeply into your eyes and say, “Don’t worry. We’ve got this. There is nothing that can shake us apart.”
Marry someone whose loves feels liberating, like a breath of fresh air.