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It’s Hard, But You Have Face The Truth: He’s Just Not That Into You


Let’s just stop living on fairytale island and let’s all start realizing the truth.

I know that we are all blind sometimes. Personally, I think that I’ve failed to interpret many situations in my life. Especially when it comes to love. I am not sure if it was my immaturity or my profound belief in love, but either way, I’ve tasted disappointment.

So, to prevent that from happening to some of you, I made a list of possible red flags that show a person is simply not interested in you. I honestly wish someone would have helped me realize the bitter truth. If I knew these truths 10 years ago, life would have been much easier for me. But oh well, I guess some of us have to learn some of these lessons on our own…

But that doesn’t mean that you should too!

So, hear me out!

If a person doesn’t call to check how you’ve been doing and what you’ve been up to – Trust me, they’re just not that into you. They don’t care.

If they forget the date of your birthday and then come up with stupid excuses to get themselves out of the mess – They are just not that into you.

If they leave you on seen but are still active on social media – They are just not that into you.

If you have to wait for hours or days to get a reply to your message – They are just not that into you. And oh, they are downright disrespectful.

If they constantly mention their ex-partners – They are just not that into you.

If they don’t want to introduce you to their friends or meet the people that you care about– They are just not into you.

If they do everything to keep your relationship in the dark and take you to places where no one could see you – They are just not that into you.

If they don’t share things about their life with you – They are just not that into you.

If they are not interested in knowing what you are doing with your own life – They are just not that into you.

If they only call you when they are drunk, and they have certain needs they want you to take care of – They are just not that into you.

If they keep telling you that everything you are and everything that you are doing should stay between the two of you – They are just not that into you.

I know that it’s hard to accept this, but you have to face this truth.

Just think about how hard life already is. Car crashes happen, people die, contracts end, phones get stolen, people get robbed, rents go up, standards go down, phone batteries die, friends change and break our hearts, loans happen, people get fired, failures bring us down, climate change is slowly destroying our planet and what not. I could go on like this forever.

Are you getting the point? No?

Well, let me make it clearer. Are you seriously telling me that after taking all of the above into account, you are willing to waste your time and energy on a person who is not that interested in you? No. Well then… give it all up, my dear.

Just let go. Delete everything that reminds of this person. Cut them off and focus on your damn life. This may sound very brutal, but I honestly believe that no matter how much you dread reading articles like this, deep down you appreciate this kind of tough love.

Because deep down you know that you are just wasting your time…

Stop it and start living your life the way you want to.

This article is written by Stephanie Reeds. If you have any questions regarding this topic or one of your own interest, feel free to email me at stephaniereeds@thepowerofsilence.co and I will be glad to give you my opinion.

Stephanie Reeds