If you are waiting for a sign to leave the man you love but is not treating you right, this is it.
If you are waiting for something to give you the courage to walk away from the person who doesn’t respect you, this is it.
Waiting for a sign to encourage you is waiting in vain because leaving something behind is a choice that you consciously make. Therefore, you only need to be brave and determined to do it.
But, it’s not that simple… The thing is, at the beginning of your relationship you thought that you’ve met the man of your dreams. He was everything you wanted. But, then your knight in shiny armor has turned into someone you don’t recognize.
So, you find yourself in a situation when you want to leave but you are afraid of being alone. You are afraid that you won’t find someone who will love you again. You are afraid that you won’t be safe on your own even though you are not safe with him either.
This is a reminder to you and everyone who is in a toxic situation that you can and you should walk away. Stop underestimating yourself. Open your eyes and see your worth. You don’t deserve to be with someone who doesn’t respect you or see your value.
You are not selfish or wrong for leaving. After all, you gave your all. And it’s about time you start looking after yourself and your needs. It’s about time you stop caring about others and what they think and focus on you instead.
And when you do leave, you will realize that you can still be happy on your own. That you can comfort yourself and be there for you when no one is. That you can be your own best friend.
He might tell you that he will change, but you don’t have to stay with him and wait for him to change. After all, it’s not your responsibility to fix him.
I know that right now leaving is too painful for you, but after some time your heart will heal and you will feel good again. And you will heal when you realize how bad you were to yourself, how you have hurt yourself. Then you’ll know that you must get your life back together.
And in that realization, you will get your power back. And everything will fall into place. It will all be worth it in the end.