It’s okay to not want to be in a long-term relationship. It’s perfectly fine to fool around if that is what you need in life. It’s not desperate, shameful or outrageous.
We all have different personalities, needs, and desires. So, that’s normal.
But, tricking someone into thinking that you care for them when the only thing you want is to get them in she the sack is something that should never be forgiven.
Know this.
She will never put a gun to your head to force you to commit. She will never make you stay with her if she knows what’s really going on inside your mind.
She’s well aware that when a person is in love and wants to spend their life with another human being, they’d gladly do it.
So, please don’t make her believe that if you aren’t ready to fully commit to her.
If you’re not ready to give yourself completely if you’re too afraid to open your heart and love her the way she deserves to be loved, let her know.
If you don’t want to engage in anything serious with her, make yourself clear.
But make sure you do that before she falls in love with the person you’re pretending to be when you’re around her.
Because I see how you treat her.
Your cards are open from the very beginning. At least the ones you want her to notice. You pretend to be everything she desires just to make her fall down the rabbit trap. Just to have her all to yourself.
You’re leading her on with your vicious lies, your enchanting charisma, your false promises. You make all the right moves, but deep down, you know that no matter how promising your show looks, it will soon come to an end.
And it seems to me like you couldn’t care less if she ends up broken and miserable.
Yet, your sweet kisses and warm hugs make it all look like this time it’s for real. You sound like you’ve finally found the right person for you. You say that she’s not just a casual hook-up. You’ve done everything in your power to make her believe that you’re ready to commit and open your heart, but, are you, really?
If that is really the truth, then tell me… Why do you keep avoiding her question about where is your relationship going? Why are you always there when you have no intention of staying?
Does it ever cross your mind that once she finds out the truth, her whole life and everything she believes in will come crashing down and destroy her?
Probably not.
All you ever care for is your pleasure and your needs. You want to fool around with other girls while having the stability of a woman who is completely devoted to you. You want to sit on two chairs at once and have it all.
You know that she’s already in too deep. And it’s not easy for her to see the things other people notice. So, please. If you have any respect for her as a person, let her know.
Stop for a second and take a look at yourself. Think about what you’re doing. Try to understand how painful and brutal this may be for her. It’s selfish to string her along.
Because she won’t settle for anything less than what her heart desires. And once she realizes that everything was just a part of one big lie, that will be the end of her.
Her vulnerable and loving heart will never endure such pain.
It doesn’t take much to open your mouth and tell her the truth.
If you are not ready to commit, stay away from her!
