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I Hate To Be The Bearer Of Bad News, But If He Cared About You, He’d Show You

he would give a damn

Hey you… Yes, you.

The woman who is banging her head against the wall. The woman who is working against herself. The one who is constantly justifying people’s behaviors but forgets to take care of herself.

Stop it.

Yes, you heard me.

Just stop it altogether.

Stop making excuses for him. Stop giving second chances to people who didn’t even deserve the first. Stop caring about him when it is obvious that he doesn’t care for you. Stop hurting yourself by allowing people like him to come into your life and take away everything that you hold dear.

Just stop and think about it.

How many times have you done this to yourself? A million. And you’ve been hurt a million times.

So, tell me. How much pain and disappointments will it take for you to finally learn?

You’ve already given so much of yourself, and for what?

He doesn’t care the way that you do. That is the truth, and you must accept it. I am sorry I am the bearer of bad news, but if he actually loved you the way you love him, he would have done everything to make you aware of his feelings.

He is not doing that. In fact, he is not doing anything.

You are the one who cries herself to sleep every night while he is somewhere out there enjoying his life to the fullest and not giving a damn about how you may feel. You are the one who overthinks everything and would do everything to have him by your side for one last time while he is openly telling everyone that he is available.

Stop it already…

Can’t you see that you are only hurting yourself?

I know it is difficult for you to make the step, but if you don’t protect yourself from further suffering, no one will. The truth is, there is only one way to stop this. And I know you know this. It is ugly. But we’ve all done it. But, sooner or later, you will have to do it as well. There is no running from that.

If you want to find happiness and live a carefree life filled with people who truly care for you and love you from the bottom of their hearts, you have to first cut the cords that connect you to people who take that happiness from you.

You have to release yourself from all the false hopes that you’ve been lingering on. You have dive deep into the nook of your own being and ask yourself… “Why do I keep doing this to myself?” You have to discover what makes you feel so unworthy that you keep coming for more pain, instead of saving yourself from it.

Because here’s what.

It is only after you do all of this that you will finally be completely free.

Free to be who you are. Free to search for your happiness. Free to love deeply.

So, are you ready to spread your wings?

Stephanie Reeds