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I Am Done Giving Second Chances To People Who Didn’t Even Appreciate The First

no more nice girl

I used to be that kind and understanding person who always cared for everyone.

I used to accept excuses and apologies from people who constantly hurt me and. I used to say I’m sorry when there was no need for it. I used to give second chances to people who didn’t even deserve the first ones. I used to be stupid and naive.

I used to put up with people’s nonsense  – but, now I’m done.

This is me finally giving up on all of you who have hurt me. I know it took me time to realize that I am better off on my own, but I did it. I admit… I was afraid to let go. I was afraid to be alone.

But now it is over.

I’ve finally learned my lesson.

You’ll never see me again.

If you try to treat me poorly, abuse me, discriminate me, put me down, make fun of me, or manipulate me in any way I am going to defend myself and leave you for good. I’m going to trust my gut feeling and cut off every human who makes me feel uncomfortable. I’m going to face you, slap you hard with the brutal truth and leave without feeling any guilt about hurting you.

This is it. This is the woman you were all looking for.

This is the woman you all wanted to see.

So, no more Mrs. Nice Girl. No more exceptions. No more second chances to people who blew the first one.

Don’t take me for a fool. I might be a nice, naive girl who looks at this world through colorful lenses. But I know my own worth. I know exactly what I deserve. So, don’t think even for a minute that I’ll let you get away with your sick games.

I’m not interested in mind games. Oh wait, let me rephrase that. I’m sickened by your mind games. I don’t want to be part of relationships that last only a day. I don’t want to waste my time on people who aren’t worthy of my love and attention.

I’m done dealing with your fake friendships, your make-believe relationships, your false intentions. I’m done giving second chances to people who have already hurt me. I’m done being the fairy godmother. I have my own life to live and dreams to chase.

Don’t test me, because if I feel that you’re leading me on for too long, I’ll walk away without giving a damn about your feelings.

Don’t you dare play with me, because if I notice that you are trying to play in any way, I’ll be gone. Forever.

There was a time when I tolerated bullsh*t and settled for average because I was afraid of being alone. I was terrified of not being liked back, abandoned, or simply ending up alone. There was a time when I thought that the more people in your life, the better.

But now… Now I don’t give a damn about those things.

I’ve finally realized that the real friends in your life can be counted on one hand. Those are the only ones that matter.

I used to be the sweetheart who had the strength to put up with all of your nonsense, but now those days are over.

I only have one life to live. And I swear to you, I’m going to make it worthwhile!

No more Mrs. Nice girl – I’m done tolerating your games!

Stephanie Reeds