Letting go of someone you love is one of the most difficult things you will ever have to do. But it is better to ditch them and to focus all your energy and love on yourself than staying with someone who is not ready for you. Because a person who doesn’t know or is not ready to love you like you deserve to be loved is not worth your time. Period.
So, stop asking people who are happy the way they are to change. Stop doing things for those who refuse to be there for you when you need them. Stop making a priority the one who considers you an option. Stop loving the one who is not feeling the same about you.
If you feel that something is off with a certain person or a situation – leave. If someone insults you, leaves you out in the cold, and disrespects you – ditch that person from your life. Because if you continue to spend your time and energy on them, your soul will be depleted, and you will only hurt yourself.
Because the truth is, everyone is not for you and you are not for everyone. We all have different types and preferences when it comes to love and relationships. But, when you do meet someone special, someone who touches your heart the right way and treats you like you deserve to be treated – you will know you have met the one.
Therefore, stop wasting your time with the wrong people. Stop holding onto someone who doesn’t want to be held. Life’s too short.
And if you are afraid to leave someone because you fear that if you stop reaching out to them you will never hear from them again – then that’s your sign to leave them immediately because you were the only person who was protecting the relationship from breaking. You were doing all the work. That is not love – that is an attachment. A toxic one.
Remember, the most valuable thing you have is your energy. That’s why you feel anxious after spending time with people who don’t have your best intentions at heart. That’s why you feel bad at jobs, cities, or places that are wrong for you. Your anxiety is your body’s warning to walk away.
That’s the reason why you must protect your energy. You must protect yourself.
Your job is not saving others. You are not responsible to save those who refuse to be saved. Your job is to understand that you are the creator of your destiny and that you are accepting the love you think you deserve when in reality, you deserve so much more.
You deserve genuine love, loyalty, respect, friendship, and true commitment. Never forget that.