Being single is being truly independent.
Shopping alone, sleeping alone, going to movies alone, walking alone, eating alone… all those things feel so liberating and great once you start truly enjoying the beauty of being in your own company. Being single means embracing your own autonomy and independence that one can never get while being in a relationship.
Your whole personality will grow and change for the better when you are single because you will be much more connected to your true self and in tune with your emotions and desires. Plus, you’ll have all the time in the world to focus on yourself and do everything you want to do.
Being single is learning that you are all you need.
One of the greatest and most important things that you will learn and understand while being single is that you don’t need another person to make you happy because you have everything you need to fulfill yourself. You are a whole person all by yourself and you know best what is good for you and what is not. No one can convince you otherwise.
You will realize that you definitely don’t need a date to go out and have fun. That you don’t need another person to validate you and give you attention because you are already complete. You learn how to take care of yourself and take your life in your hands without depending on anyone.
Being single is being self-aware about who you are and what you are looking for in a relationship.
Being single will make you more conscious about who you are and what you truly want in life. You will learn what kind of lifestyle suits you, who are the people that you want to surround yourself with, and what things about yourself you want to change and improve.
And it goes without saying that when you are completely comfortable and happy with who you are, that’s when you’ll attract someone like you. Someone independent, honest, deep, and whole. Someone who has their life together, just like you.
Until then, enjoy your single life because it is the best period of your life, trust me.