Because you are already doing great by yourself.
It’s better to be alone than with people who don’t deserve your time and energy. And if you are afraid of loneliness, remember that being alone doesn’t equal being lonely. In fact, you may feel lonely when you are surrounded by certain people. Therefore, you are allowed to welcome people in your life and cut them off if they are not good for you.
Because the only validation you need should come from you.
We always make the mistake of worrying about what other people think about us. We worry about making a fool of ourselves and others making fun of us while the reality is that we should care only about our opinion because, in the end, we are the ones that get to live with our mistakes and decisions.
Moreover, we don’t need other people to tell us that we are good enough. We don’t need others to make us happy. We could and we should be happy on our own.
Because silence is healing.
It seems like nowadays we are always in a rush – to go somewhere or to get something done. We rarely have time for ourselves. We don’t have time to read a book in silence, to meditate, or just sit with our thoughts because we get constantly interrupted by trivial things. So, shut down your phone and enjoy your time in silence. Let everything stop for a moment and focus only on yourself.
Because when you learn how to be alone and enjoy it, you only allow people with whom you can create meaningful connections.
You no longer waste your precious time on people who don’t deserve it. Your relationships are meaningful, special, and long-lasting with people with whom you can connect on a real and deep level.
Because when you are alone, you can become the best version of yourself.
You have all the time in the world to create the life you’ve always wanted to live. You are free to improve yourself and become the best you can be!