You. With the tired soul and destroyed hopes.
You. Who struggle to find your way out of this.
You. With those painful wounds on your heart.
You. Who no longer believe in anything.
This goes to you, my dear.
I know how painful your journey has been. And I am truly sorry that you had to suffer so much in life. I am truly sorry that you didn’t know better. But I guess, that’s inevitable, right? After all, that’s how we learn. How we grow. How we gain strength in life.
I just want you to know that it is time…
I know it must be hard for you to get back on your feet and regain your strength, but you are the only one who can do it. You are the only one that can save yourself.
It is time for you to finally make the step and release yourself from those cages.
It is time to be brave and choose yourself over everything that hurts you.
Stop for a minute and look around you. There is no one out there that can save you if you don’t make the first step on your own. You have to wake up from this nightmare and realize that you matter. That you are worthy of love and respect. And that you are strong enough to keep moving forward on your own.
Be brave enough to choose yourself over a toxic partner. No matter what.
I know how terrified you are. I know how weak you feel. I know that your body says YES, and your heart means NO. But no matter how strange and painful this phase might seem to you right now, you have to do your best to get it over with.
The most important thing for you right now is not staying in that relationship, but getting rid of it. Right now you need to learn to love and take care of yourself because that is the only way to find happiness. No person out there can give the unconditional love and care that you desperately owe to yourself right now. So, please. Stop waiting for a miracle. Let this be the sign.
If your gut is sending you a signal, don’t ignore it. Trust your intuition, especially in love. If it tells you to get out then GET OUT. Your thoughts, emotions, gut feelings, perceptions, they are all real. They are always here to tell us everything that we need to know, even when we don’t want to hear it.
So, don’t be afraid. Don’t think of what tomorrow will bring. Don’t despair. Don’t pity yourself. Don’t make the mistake of giving them a second chance.
Look deep within you, find the strength inside that pretty, little heart of yours and be brave to walk away without ever looking back. It is your wellbeing that we’re talking about. It is your freedom, your happiness, and your life that you need to worry about.
Put your fears aside and be brave to choose yourself over a toxic partner.
Today and every single day of your life.