“I am a strong woman with or without this other person”
– Queen Latifah
A strong woman is one who knows her worth. She knows that she deserves only the best and that her relationships can be no different. If the person that she’s with doesn’t respect her enough to show her the love that she deserves, she will not put up with it.
When she feels like she’s not being treated right, a woman like her will never beg for your love. Instead, she’ll put her foot down and say that enough is enough. A strong woman will walk away the moment she feels like she’s not wanted.
Every Relationship Starts With Sparks
No one enters into a new relationship with someone unless they think that it has potential. There needs to be chemistry, fireworks, and an undeniable attraction between both people. Unfortunately, that initial spark doesn’t guarantee that everything’s going to work out in the end.
Good relationships aren’t built on chemistry alone. It needs trust, love, and care. Most of all, it needs both people to make one another feel loved and feel wanted. Without those things, everything will crumble and fall.
She Might Let Her Guard Down
That awful moment when a woman suspects that she’s not really wanted by her partner can be a devastating one. She can feel her heart break into a million pieces as she begins to ask herself “why?” Sometimes, it can be tempting for her to find her partner and beg them to love her.
Thankfully, a strong woman will never subject herself to that. She may speak to her significant other to confirm if her suspicions are true, but that’s about where it ends. After all is said and done, she’s just going to leave. There’s nothing left for her in that relationship if the person that she’s with doesn’t appreciate her.
That Doesn’t Mean That it Doesn’t Hurt
Sure, she has the strength to walk away from the person that she loves, but that doesn’t that mean she isn’t hurting. She may not beg for love but that doesn’t mean that the pain she feels from leaving isn’t greater than any pain that she’s felt before.
Although it may not seem like it, she will be heartbroken. This was a relationship that she wanted to be in, that she thought would last, and it’s all gone in the blink of an eye. She may not show her pain on the outside, but trust me, it’s there. Truthfully, she just has the strength to do what she knows is right, even if it hurts her deeply.
When a strong woman realizes that she’s unwanted in her relationship, it’s already over for her. She’s not going to beg for something that’s already dead and buried. Instead, she’ll walk away with her head held high and hope in her heart that she’ll find someone better. Eventually, she’s going to move on and find someone who will appreciate what an amazing, fierce, woman they have in front of them.
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