Let’s just all stop doing what we are doing and focus on the real thing here.
There’s no such thing as bad timing or commitment issues. There is only ‘the right person’.
That is why a man who genuinely loves you and wants to spend their life with you will commit to you without hesitating.
A man who wants to be with you will be with you. End of story.
IT’S THAT SIMPLE.
This man will open his soul, rip his heart out of his chest and he will hand it to you if he needs to. He will go out of his way to be there for you. He will make sacrifices. He will climb mountains, cross oceans and seas, survive thunderstorms, and eventually, he will make his way to you. He will do everything that is necessary to show you that he is ready to devote himself to loving you.
I know that some of you will find this difficult to accept because you’ve probably already been through the worst in life. Many of you had been manipulated, tricked with excuses, taken for granted, mistreated and left alone at that moment when you needed someone by your side.
Many of you even settled for shitty, average relationships with partners who didn’t love them. And many of you suffered the consequences of unrequited love, hoping that one day something will change in this person and they will give you what you crave.
The most tragical thing is, most of you are still waiting for that moment. Even though, deep down you are certain that it won’t ever happen.
I am truly sorry that you had to go through all of it. Whatever you did in life, you never deserved that kind of treatment. No matter how many mistakes you’ve made, your heart did not deserve that pain. You didn’t deserve to have your hopes taken away from you.
Because that’s what you are right now. Hopeless. You try to hide it, but your eyes can’t.
So, let me tell you something. The truth is, real love is out there. You may not believe in it right now, but one day a person will come into your life and show you that you’ve been wrong all along. He will help you find your hope within you and he will help you learn how to love again.
If he really wants to spend his life with you by his side, he will stay with you. He will do everything to love you the way you deserve. You will see his devotion in his eyes. And you will see his commitment in the way he touches you. Once you experience this, you will realize that anything other than this is just wasting your time. And it will finally dawn on you why it never worked with anyone else before.
You won’t look for those signs like you did before. You won’t question this person. You won’t search for hidden meaning in his words. You won’t need to have them prove to you how much they love you. Because they will do it in their own special way. And you will know it in your heart that they are the person that was meant to be with you.
It’s not rocket science. If a man really wants to spend his present and future with you, he will do it. And you will know this. Deep inside your heart, you will feel it.
So, stop wasting your limited time on people who are not worthy of your love. Stop investing yourself in relationships that make you feel like you are not enough. Stop giving your energy to loves that are not meant to last forever. Stop wasting your precious days, months and years waiting for someone to make up their mind about you. Stop justifying someone’s shitty behaviors. Stop pitying yourself that you cannot find love when you are not giving yourself the chance to let it find you.
And always remember. Relationships may be complex, but LOVE is simple. It either exists or it doesn’t.
This article is written by Stephanie Reeds. If you have any questions regarding this topic or one of your own interest, feel free to email me at [email protected]