Finding the one, the lovely and kind-hearted Prince Charming is not something that happens every day. I’m not saying that there are no good men out there, I’m just saying they’re extremely rare nowadays.
On the other hand, there ’s perfect timing, chemistry and all the other necessary pieces for a puzzle to be successfully completed. And even then, no one can guarantee you it will turn out the way you intended.
So, considering that it’s a long and unpredictable process, we usually end up kissing а few frogs before the right one comes along. But, how can you know that the man you’re seeing is truly the kind of guy who is worth fighting for?
One thing is for sure. If a guy keeps failing to do some of the following signs, he might not be your “forever “after all. Keep watch for these essential 12 signs:
1. TALK ABOUT POSSIBLE FUTURE PLANS TOGETHER
When a man truly loves you and becomes seriously involved in the relationship, you can be sure that he’s considering settling down with you for the rest of your life. He would want to let you know that you’re the girl he intends to spend his eternity with.
However, if he fails to show his pure intentions about you, that might a clear sign that he’s just not the one.
2. BE YOUR NO.1 SUPPORT SYSTEM
One of the crucial signs in a relationship. When you love someone, it is only natural to be happy for their achievements as if they were your own. And you support them, no matter how silly their dreams might seem. Because that’s just what you do for the ones you love.
If a man fails to motivate you, but instead he discourages you to move forward and fulfill your true purpose in life, believe me, he’s not “your forever”.
3. REMAIN HIS TRUE, GENUINE SELF WHEN HE’S WITH YOU
This one speaks for itself. You can’t expect a person who hides under the veil of lies and illusion to be your “Ever after”.
The man who won’t hesitate to reveal even the tiniest, deepest parts of his soul is the one who’s worth of fighting for. He will always remain the same from the very start. No lies. No masks.
Everything other than that is just make-believe.
4. MAKE AN EFFORT TO BE ACCEPTED BY YOUR LOVED ONES
If he really loves you and cares for you, he’ll be pleased to make the extra effort to be liked and accepted by your loved ones. He would want to meet the people who mean the world to you.
Because he understands that your friends and family are the most important people in your life. And the one who just refuses to show even the slightest interest in meeting the ones who truly matter to you is clearly not on the same page as you.
5. GET OUT OF HIS WAY TO PUT A SMILE ON YOUR FACE
When you love someone, you’ll do everything to make their smile glisten and their eyes sparkle. Because, when you experience pure love, your souls blend into a single soul. Your heart fills with joy from their happiness. You sense their sorrow.
6. BE HONEST AT ALL COSTS
If the person you’re with cannot be honest with you and keeps lying to you, you’re better off without them. Because a man who truly loves you would never dare to lie to your face. And what’s a relationship, if not a unity based on mutual understanding and honesty, on top of it all?
7. TREAT YOU WITH UTMOST RESPECT AND CARE
A genuine and kind-hearted person who loves you with all his heart will make sure to keep you safe. He’ll behave like the perfect gentleman and he’ll respect your choices. And even if he has the reason to criticize you for a certain behavior, he will do it in private.
If the person you’re with doesn’t give a damn about respecting you and your own rules in life, they aren’t worth a dime.
8. BE A GREAT LISTENER
And not to mention that a person who truly cares for you, will always make time to listen to you. They’ll be there to hear about your exciting news, they’ll be beside you when you’re feeling blue, or you just need to cry your heart out.
A relationship without mutual empathy and understanding isn’t love.
9. BE HAPPY TO INCLUDE YOU IN HIS OWN SOCIAL CIRCLES
If you notice a certain suspicious behavior that your man is somehow hiding you in the closet and whenever he meets up with fellow mates, you are just “a friend”, it’s more than obvious that he is not with you for the same reasons.
A person who falls in love with you will be thrilled to introduce you to their closest circles. They’ll be proud to call you their girlfriend.
10. BE ABLE TO MAKE COMPROMISES
A “forever” person will always be ready and willing to make compromises in order to protect your love. Whenever you two disagree on something, you’ll always find a way to make it work. Because communication is the essential ingredient to a successful relationship.
11. MAKE YOU ORGASM. AND OFTEN
I mean, does this even need a further explanation? If a guy just fails to ignite fireworks in your bedroom and makes your toes curl like never before, he might not be the one.
Don’t get me wrong, but when the person is right you’ll just know. You’ll feel an intense rush through your veins, you’ll feel it in your heart. You’ll feel it inside of you (pun intended).
12. RESPECT YOUR BOUNDARIES
A man who cares about you will never stop respecting your boundaries. He understands the importance of a private life separated from love-life. He knows that you’ve lived your whole life by your own rules, so he’s not the one who can just come and change that.
He respects your rules and boundaries because he loves you with all of his heart.