Falling in love is an inexplicable pure feeling that has the power to turn our whole world upside down. Your individuality aligns with another person’s madness for the first time and you can’t help but dive right in and hope for the best.
However, the general society holds an opinion that men don’t fall in love as same as women. They tend to generalize and I’m sure that the following “Women are much more affectionate and emotional”; “Men don’t care” are very familiar to all of you. Naturally, the list of stereotypes goes for miles.
So, when it comes to falling head over heels with someone, what is it that truly makes a man fall in love with a woman?
Relationship Coach Bobbi Palmer says, “A man falls in love when he feels like he could be a superhero with you in his life. When he feels accepted, appreciated and understood, and knows he can make you happy…he will be yours. Oh…and throw in that he thinks you’re hot!”
Both women and men have the same emotions when it comes to love, however, men do it their own special kind of way. Here are 6 reasons that trigger that lovey-dovey, tingly feeling whenever they meet the woman of their dreams:
1. HE’S ENCHANTED BY HER WHOLENESS
Men are allured by women who possess the sacred entirety. Their personality, their looks, the laughter, their kindness, in other words, the whole package. You’ll probably say that a person with such traits doesn’t exist, however, they are among the rarest individuals.
And whenever a man encounters a woman of such qualities, he is instantly taken with her.
When it comes to love and serious relationships men would never settle for less, that is why when the true lady comes into their life, they fall head over heels in love and would do anything to keep her in their life.
2. HE FEELS HE CAN MAKE HER HAPPY
Ultimately in life, we all want the same. We want a person with whom we’ll feel an immediate special connection, a magnetic attraction, and fiery passion. Someone who’ll make us happy.
When a man feels that he makes a woman happy by being by her side, he’ll keep falling and falling for her.
The feeling that he’s needed in her life and the thought that he has the power to make her the happiest woman alive, makes a man connect really strong. This type of bond is meant to exist forever.
3. HE MEETS A WOMAN WHO IS OPEN TO LOVE
As much as the general society believes that people are the most attracted to things that are unavailable to them, it is known that men fall in love with women who are not afraid to love. Women who are open with their feelings and wear their heart on their sleeve.
“The things that make a man fall in love really boil down to a deep emotional connection. When you feel comfortable with being open and vulnerable with someone, you’re likely falling in love. We can only really feel anything, including love, when the walls are down,” says dating coach James Preece.
4. HE FEELS SPECIAL AROUND HER
When a man feels warm, accepted and loved by the woman he’s with, it is very easy to fall crazy in love with her.
He feels a certain way whenever he’s with her and there are no words to describe the feeling. She cherishes him, loves him unconditionally and that’s exactly the reason why a man is captivated by a woman’s tenderness.
5. HE MEETS A WOMAN WHO HAS LUST FOR LIFE
Men are love-struck by women who are high on life. Women who are adventurous and free, the ones who say “yes” to life and live to experience the eternal happiness.
Men seek for the one who’ll be willing to say yes, whether it’s a place he wants to go or a sport he likes to play. A person who’ll not only accept them the way they are but would also be thrilled to find out even more about what makes them happy.
6. HE FEELS THE SAME PURPOSE AND PASSION
And when a man senses that exact same passion for life whenever he is with a certain woman, it is very clear that they were meant for each other.
“No other emotion seems more mysterious than love. At its core, falling in love is driven by our desire for happiness. It’s often sparked by physical attraction; it lasts with deep points of connection that leave him feeling purposeful, fulfilled, attractive, energized and…loved.” says Executive and Life Coach Barbara Waxman
That’s the moment when a man realizes just how much would do for his special person. He realizes that there’s nothing in the world that makes him happier than having her by his side. And just like that he gives in and falls madly in love with her.