There’s a force that outshines all the superficiality in the world, all the power there is and beats every rational belief. It is called love. The rare, “head-over-heels”, “no-inhibitions” kind of love.
Through years and centuries, people spend lifetimes searching for it. However, there are few lucky ones that got to cross their paths with their one true love without even expecting it. That one special person that makes your heart pound wild.
But, how do you know for certain if the person you’re with is the one for you?
Well, call me old-fashioned, but when it comes to love I prefer the genuine, traditional, “raw feelings” kind of love. Praising each other’s successes, sharing each other’s biggest desires and fears. Being complete on your own, yet becoming one with the other person.
Here are 11 signs that you’ve finally found yourself that special person.
1. HE MAKES YOU FEEL SAFE
One of the surest indicators you’re with the right person is the feeling of being safe around them. If your man goes out of his way to ensure you that you’re the most important thing that happened to them, you found a person worth keeping.
2. HE SUPPORTS EVERY DREAM OF YOURS
Ultimately, in life, we seek for a person who’ll be able to understand the madness we carry. Every little crazy idea, every desired goal, and dream we have for us.
If you happen to stumble a man who is more than happy to learn what makes your heart race and eyes sparkle, you are very lucky.
3. HE MAKES YOU HIS PRIORITY
Yes, life is overflown with duties, work, obligations, and whatnot. However, life is also what we make it. What we choose to make it. It is the non-materialistic things that make our soul flourish and make us grow.
Being unconditionally in love means squeezing out time out of your hectic schedule to see that special one. It means pushing the limits. It means caring for the relationship and creating time for you two.
4. HE IS SINCERE
Honesty is one of the key ingredients for a healthy relationship. If you have a relationship with a person with whom you feel like you could be sincere about every little thing, you’ve finally met the right person.
Life should be experienced with an open, honest heart. For only then you’ll be able to see all the beauty there is.
5. HE NEVER CROSSES THE LINE
Whenever you two face troubles, you know that the right way to settle things is discussing and solving every disagreement you have. He understands that you two can sometimes disagree with each other’s opinions without crossing the line and attack one another.
6. HE KNOWS THE IMPORTANCE OF THOSE “LITTLE THINGS”
He never forgets how important those “little things” are for the relationship. Some people focus solely on those “grand gestures” while keep forgetting the smaller signs which signify that a person cares. Well, he’s not that guy.
He is the one who leaves you love reminders, hold the door open for you, makes you dinner and kisses you on the forehead before you fall asleep. He’s the one.
7. HE’S GOT YOUR BACK, ALWAYS
And no matter how hard life gets, he’s right there beside you. Keeping you on your feet, holding your hand firmly and whispering “You can do this. I believe in you.”
Because love is going through those frightening thunderstorms together, so you can later enjoy the sun in each other’s embrace.
8. HE OPENS HIS SOUL TO YOU
He’s not afraid to show you his feelings. He allows being vulnerable in front of you. When a person is ready to lay their soul in front of you without being afraid of the consequences, it is real. You’ve found a man that is not afraid to be with you.
9. HE KNOW THAT ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS
Nowadays, people are more likely to make fake promises if that guarantees them getting what they want. However, it takes the right person to actually fulfill what they promised.
It is true that actions speak louder than words. So, if you are with a man who goes through life living by this quote, you’ve got yourself a keeper.
10.YOU INSPIRE HIM TO BECOME THE BEST VERSION OF HIMSELF
And on top of it all, you make him feel more and more motivated to reach the best in himself. You inspire him to rise up to his potential and be the best version of himself.
Having a person who has such high significance in your life and it is actually able to influence you in a positive manner is a clear sign that your relationship is moving in a positive direction.
11.HE MAKES YOU FEEL BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT
And he manages to stir the same feeling in you. He makes you feel like the most beautiful person in the whole world, both inside and out. He’s very considerate of his words, so you know that whatever he tells you, deep inside he truly means it.