Some women are blessed to meet the love of their lives and engage in relationships without having any troubles or complications. But, some aren’t as lucky to find a person who’d make it all look easier than it is.
There are women who, unfortunately, go through life bumping into all the wrong men. They waste months and years desperately trying to make the relationships work.
But, there’s a time when after all the suffering, you firmly decide to draw a line. You decide that you’ll no longer give your heart to people who don’t deserve it. And you just stop it all together.
These women survived through the dark side of love, grew much stronger, and they still believe that somewhere out there, love exists, and love awaits them. These powerful and incredible women are everywhere among us.
So, here’s everything you need to know about them and the reason behind their struggle to find a true, genuine love:
1. THEIR CONFIDENCE INTIMIDATES PEOPLE
Some men need to constantly feed their greedy egos off a person’s weakness in order to stay alive. That’s exactly why these men steer clear of women who live completely by their own rules.
Ladies with strong attitude are special and extraordinary women. They won’t give up on their lives just because some someone told them to. They have their own unique set of moral values and will never allow any person to disturb their balance in life. Never again.
2. THEY ALWAYS PUT THEIR NEEDS FIRST
These ladies will never be about serving men. They are all about living their life to the fullest and fulfilling their goals and deepest dreams.
They’ve gone through a lot of painful experiences only to learn, that no one will ever care for us unless we do. The only person who is in charge of our well-being is us. No matter how selfish it might sound, from now on – our needs are a priority number one!
3. THEY HAVE A NATURAL, DOUCHEBAG-REPELLING SHIELD
And because of their strong opinions and lively independence, they are truly intimidating to immature men otherwise known as jerks.
They won’t allow to be a part of some twisted game. The minute they sense that someone is trying to mistreat them, they’re out of the picture.
These rare gems know their true value and respect themselves enough to never let anyone control their life. Even if that means being alone for some time.
4. THEY DON’T TOLERATE ANYONE’S RUDENESS
As mentioned before, don’t even try to fool with them around. They’ll know what you are up to and believe me, they won’t have a problem to confront you about it.
These women are fearless, and they always stand up for themselves. And that’s the same reason why they struggle to find a good and pure soul nowadays.
5. THEY WON’T CHANGE FOR ANYONE
They know what it feels like to give everything and change for someone just, so they can be content because they’ve learned the hard way.
But, the more time passed, they’ve become wiser. These women have learned that our true personality is the only thing that makes us different from every living being on this planet.
We shouldn’t change for the one we love. Because when that special someone arrives, they’ll love us just the way we are. With every little flaw and every silly imperfection.
6. THEY’VE BECOME EXTRA PICKY
It’s true that nowadays there are less and less decent, fine and progressive men. They’ve basically become endangered species.
So, these women know that it might take a while until they meet the man of their dreams, but eventually, it’ll all be worth it.
No more wrong choices, no more “make-believe” relationships, no more fear.
7. THEY CAN BE EXTREMELY FIESTY
They are not the type of women who would just keep their mouth shut when something isn’t right. And that kind of attitude can sometimes make them pretty much intense for some people.
In fact, they are the types of women who you’ll either end up loving them or hating them. There’s no grey area.
8. THEY WORK HARD FOR THEIR GOALS
And of course, they have other priorities in life than just finding love. These women have big goals and dreams in their lives and they work very hard in order to achieve them.
So, a friendly tip for the gentlemen: Don’t expect her to drop everything just to be with you. Make sure you give them enough space for themselves, otherwise the relationship is doomed.
9. THEY ARE THE RARE ONES THAT MOST GUYS STRUGGLE FINDING
And they are exactly the type of ladies that most guys (mature, decent men) dream of meeting.
However, it’s hard to get close to them. They’ve made walls around them, and those walls aren’t meant to be torn down until the right person comes along.
10. THEY LOVE THE HARDEST
But, when that happens, when they meet the person who’ll be able to look inside their soul and recognize their individuality, they’ll love the hardest.
Once they fall in love, it will be the real thing. They will cherish and respect the other person, but they will expect the same in return. They will love you with every fiber of their being.
Photo: Mischa Buckow