Life is hard and a challenging journey for every living person on this planet Earth. We all face difficult, enthralling, exhausting, magical emotions and experiences that hold the power to drastically change our whole existence. However, I can’t help but notice that sometimes we tend to overlook the most important lessons of life or just take them for granted. We get lost in a never-ending, familiar routine with our everyday life, that we forget the essential purpose of our existence.
We forget that this one and only life that was given to us has an expiration date. We forget that tomorrow might not always come for everybody. We forget that time is fleeting and ultimately, we reach a point where it’s too late…
For that reason, it is of great importance for every living human being to find a time to recall and adopt those life-changing truths. For only then we’ll be able to say that we’ve truly lived a life that we’re proud of.
Let these truths guide your way…
1. THE LESS YOU CARE THE HAPPIER YOU’LL BE
It’s one of the most relevant, unwritten rules that the more you avoid stress and drama, the happier you’ll be. And probably the easiest way to do that is to really stop pleasing everyone around you.
Stop waiting for a validation and a kind “I’m sorry” from everyone. Because you’ll be wasting your life in vain.
2. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS
Words are fleeting and can be easily transformed into lies. A person can say everything that comes to their mind and actually make you believe it.
But, actions… They’re the most powerful weapon we possess. Because actions can’t be faked. Actions will expose your true self and reveal the nature that’s hiding under that superficial exterior.
Actions will speak to you louder than words. But, only if you dare to listen.
3. DON’T FORGET TO SHOW GRATITUDE
Are you alive and well? Do you have a roof over your head? Do you have people who you love more than anything in this world?
If the answer is yes, you, my friend, have every reason to be happy. As people, nowadays we tend to get lost in the cycle of consumerism and the never-ending appetite for something new. There’s always something that we desperately need in life.
And, that’s where we forget to appreciate the most important things in life. Be grateful to have the things that can never be bought with all the money in the world. Appreciate your life.
4. WORK HARD BUT TAKE CARE OF YOUR VIGOUR
Yes, I’m all about chasing my dreams and doing my very best to reach the things my heart desires. However, “doing your best” doesn’t mean working yourself to the point of exhaustion and the possibility of a mental breakdown.
5. LIVE FOR YOURSELF
People will always find ways to keep your powerful voice on mute. They will always try to downgrade you and make you feel ashamed of your peculiar individuality.
But, one thing you should always remember is that the master and creator of your life are you. You and no other person but you. Make sure to live it by your very own rules without giving a damn what they have to say about it.
6. EVERY FAILURE IS A LESSON TO BE LEARNED
And never beat yourself up for making a mistake. Mistakes are products of the flaws that eventually make us human.
And what’s more, mistakes are the most powerful lessons in life. They’ll hurt us, make us miserable and depressed, but they will help us rise and grow up as new, changed individuals. (1)
7. LIVE WITHOUT REGRETS
Please, whatever you do, always choose to move forward. Despite all the hardships and every heartache. Never allow yourself to waste even a minute regretting the past.
Thinking back on life, you can really observe that it is one marvelous chain of events. Everything you lived to experience lead your way to the person you are today. Never forget that.
8. EXIST IN THIS PRESENT MOMENT
We tend to spend our whole lives worrying about the past and wait endlessly for those “better days”. But, the one thing we forget to do is exist in this present moment. We forget to embrace life in this present time.
There’s nothing more important than this really. The beauty and all the magic in the world lie only in the splendor of the present time. Learn to let go of everything that’s out of your control and seize the day!
9. PROCRASTINATION WILL MAKE YOU ITS SLAVE
It’s really easy to lay all day and not do anything useful. But, great things can be achieved only by getting out of that comfort zone.
Procrastination will make you its slave before you know it. So, I suggest you get up right now and start doing something productive with your day. You’ll thank me later.
10. KIND WORDS WILL UNLOCK EVERY IRON DOOR
Oldie, but Goldie. Never ever forget to be kind to people. Just smiling at a random person and greeting them with a cheerful “Good Morning” will do wonders.
We are used to a constant rush in this life, rarely noticing the beauty around us. But, it’s when you decide to stop for a while, that you’ll finally realize the true power our actions hold.