It’s true. Women can be truly forgiving and patient when it comes to love.
It blows my mind just how much we’re able to take in until our emotions overwhelm us and throw us off balance. All because we have a lot of love to share with the world. Especially with those that we care about.
So, we put up with things. We tolerate. We accept. We try to understand. We put ourselves in other people’s shoes. We are patient and we do everything in our power to justify people’s actions.
Even when they hurt us. Even they do things without taking our feelings into account. Even when they are rude to us. Even when they break our hearts.
It’s true. When it comes to love, we would do anything to see it flourish.
But what most people don’t realize is that our forgiving nature is not our weakness. It doesn’t mean that we have no limits. Quite on the contrary. We do. And when those limits are reached and our boundaries broken, there is nothing that you could do to fix them.
When a woman’s patience wears thin, it’s over.
Keep that in mind the next time you think you try to get away with your childish games.
A woman may forgive you once, she may understand you and give you a second chance. But gamble it away, and you won’t get a third one.
Because when a woman has truly had enough of your disrespect, she will stop trying. Altogether. And believe me, she won’t hesitate to walk away at that exact moment. Without rethinking her decision. Without regretting her choice. Without ever looking back.
I am not saying that it will be easy for her to let you go, but she will do it. No matter how much she loves you. Her heart will ache, her eyes will tear up, her soul will be shattered, but she will keep moving on. For her own good.
She’ll need time to process what she’s been through and detach herself completely from you, but she will get there. And one day, she won’t remember anything. The wounds on her heart will heal, the pain in her soul will fade away and the only thing that will remind her of you will be the memories that you two had. But they’ll be just a tiny speck in her life. And you’ll be the mistake that helped her learn one of life’s most valuable lessons. Nothing more than that.
So, please. Don’t confuse a woman’s patience with her intelligence.
More importantly, don’t ever take her for granted.
Treat your woman the way she deserves to be treated. Love her the way you wish to be loved. If you want to keep her in your life, get rid of your cockiness and your disrespectful behavior. Give her a reason to stay in your life. Let her know that she can trust you. Be a better man. Fix yourself.
And don’t be so naive to even think that you can get her back once she decides to leave you.
For when a woman is truly done with you, you won’t be able to change her mind.