When you leave someone, when you decide to close the door on someone, when you are saying your final goodbye to someone – please, be careful with choosing your words. Because when you say something aloud, you can’t get it back.
Once you say goodbye to someone, be prepared to face the fact that it may be for the last time and that words can cut deep like a knife.
You see, when the one you care about the most is constantly trying to put you down and tell you-you are not good enough, when someone you love with all your heart refuses to choose you, when someone is your priority and they are taking you from granted – no matter how confident and strong you are, you’ll always feel like you are not good enough.
Because when you put on a pedestal someone who is not good for you, it can end up really bad for you. That person can destroy your confidence, shatter your self-esteem, and break your heart.
You’ll feel like you don’t have control over your life. You’ll be frustrated because you won’t have any idea how to fight with all your demons and overwhelming thoughts.
Somehow, no matter what you do, you feel like it is either not good enough or it is entirely wrong.
You’ll keep blaming yourself for everything that goes wrong in your relationships. You’ll keep asking yourself what you have done to push the person away. Somehow, you will always think it is your fault. Somehow, you’ll always feel like you are not good enough…
That’s how deep words can hurt a person…
That’s why it’s important to remind ourselves of our importance.
We can all sometimes feel like we are not good enough. But that’s when we need to remind ourselves that we can’t be good for everyone. But we will be more than enough for the right people.
And that’s what matters the most.