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This Goes To The Girl Who No Longer Believes She’ll Find Love

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You’re the girl who’s been single for quite a long time. You’ve been in relationships before in which you gave your heart to guys only to see it broken into a thousand tiny pieces.

I know you’re wondering why all your relationships had to end:

“What did I do wrong?”

“Why wasn’t I good enough for him?”

“Why am I always the one who ends up being taken for granted?”

You’re struggling with these questions every single day, and you never manage to find the answers.

I know you feel like you’ll stay single forever. You feel like you’ll never find ‘The One.’ You feel like you weren’t meant to love and be loved.

But I am here to tell you -THAT’S A LIE.

Because love will find you when the time is right. It’ll find you when you’re ready for it.

You’re wondering how I know this?

Well, my dear, I’ve already been through what you’re going through now. I know what it feels like to be disrespected, unwanted, and hurt. I know what it feels like to be empty and lonely. I know what it feels like to be taken for granted.

I know what it feels like to spend countless nights crying and wondering whether the torture will ever stop.

Yes, trust me – I know how you feel.

And I know what you deserve too.

You deserve a guy who will love you the way you love him – purely, deeply, madly, unconditionally. You deserve a guy who will treat you with respect, kindness, compassion, and affection.

You deserve a guy who will be able to see beyond your outer beauty. A guy who will see the beauty of your soul.

You deserve a man who will stay by your side through your best and worst times. A man who will fight for your happiness and who won’t leave you to deal with your problems and pains on your own. A man who will stick with you through thick and thin.

You deserve a guy who won’t walk away at the first sign of trouble. A guy who will be willing to make compromises for the sake of the relationship. A guy who will fight with everything he’s got to protect what you two have. To protect your love.

You deserve a guy who will accept and cherish you the way you are – flaws and all. A guy who will know your worth.

Therefore, don’t despair because you’ll find this kind of man soon.

You will soon find the man who will be ready for your love. The man who will know how to handle the intensity of your love. The man who will love you and care about you the way you deserve.

You’ll soon find the man who will never make you question his feelings for you and where your relationship is headed. The man who will make sure you know how special you are to him.

You’ll soon find the man who will know that you’re more than good enough. That you’re smart, strong, and beautiful. You’ll soon find the man who will know all your weaknesses and imperfections, but who won’t judge you because of them. Instead, he’ll embrace them.

You’ll soon find the man who will love you in your entirety. The man who will love you genuinely. Intensely. Passionately. Unconditionally.

And until then, learn how to accept and cherish yourself the way you are. Learn how to stop doubting your qualities and strength. Learn how to enjoy the present moment and get the most out of your life.

And remember – your relationship status doesn’t and can’t define who you are. It can’t shape your happiness. It can’t determine your worth.

Riley Cooper