When you are a woman who is always there for other people, you tend to feel a lot. You are a very deep woman, you have an ocean inside you, but you keep allowing people into your life who don’t know how to swim or fear depths. You always give and give. You give all your heart and soul to people just to see them smile.
But you are in pain. You ache, you hurt, you bleed wondering if anyone will ever love you the way you love others. Wondering if someone will ever ask you how YOU are doing, do YOU need something, have you healed…
But then that doesn’t happen, and you are been left on your own yet again. So, you don’t have any other choice but to be your own savior and heal yourself. That’s why you enjoy your solitude. That’s why you find your peace in your dreams. That’s why you find strength in being there for yourself because no one else is.
So, you tell yourself that you don’t need anyone when you have yourself. But you do…
Because, you see, there come times when the woman who is always there for others needs someone to be there for her. The woman who has the biggest smile oftentimes is the one who carries the most hurt in her heart. The woman who always makes other people happy and wipes their tears is oftentimes the one who cries her eyes out when she goes to bed. The woman who always supports and encourages people around her needs someone to remind her of her strengths and capabilities.
If you are a woman who is always there for other people, please remember that you have a heart of gold. Your heart and soul are so deep and pure that you can calm the storms inside of people. You can relieve their pain and make them alive again. That’s rare.
But you should also remind yourself that you are a person as well. That you matter. Don’t make yourself invincible. You need to rest. Your heart and soul need rest. You don’t have to carry all the weight of the world on your shoulders. You are allowed to take a break and focus on yourself for a change. After all, you won’t ever be able to heal everyone. You can’t save everyone.
You are also someone who is worthy of love and affection. So, don’t be scared to ask for help when you need it. You don’t always have to save yourself. Allow others to give you the love you always give to them so freely.