Stop overthinking. Stop questioning and worrying whether you are on the right path or not. Stop measuring where you stand in comparison to others. Stop making yourself believe that you are not where you want to be because you are not competent enough, good enough. Stop.
Where you are right now is where you are supposed to be. Even if you can’t see it through all the mess – you are.
It took many moments, days, months, years, and decisions to get you here. It took tears, pain, smiles, mistakes, blessings, struggles, good days, bad days… but here you are. Here is okay. Here is good. It’s where you are meant to be right now.
I don’t know why, but for some reason, we tell ourselves that what we have and where we are in life is not enough. That we must do more, strive more in order to reach the level we have on our mind. So, we punish ourselves. Instead of being grateful for everything that we’ve endured to get to this point – we don’t give ourselves any credit for it.
The thing is, we often forget that every single step we make is a part of our journey. There will always be difficulties and blockages on our path. There will always be ups and downs. That’s how it is. Sometimes we don’t like where we are, but during those moments it’s crucial to believe that everything is okay and it’s leading us forward to our destiny.
Everything is and will be okay. You only need to believe in it and in yourself.
Every moment, every day is where you are meant to be. You are meant to get tired. You are meant to get stuck from time to time. You are meant to feel as if you are barely moving. You are meant to, because all those days when you feel that way will pass and lead to something beautiful.
Just like you have amazing moments of equilibrium and you enjoy great success and you feel as you could cry from happiness. You also know that these moments of pure bliss and perfection will eventually pass as well.
You see, everything is a part of this journey called life. You need everything – both good and bad experiences. Only, you must remind yourself that you are okay where you are. You must tell yourself that you are brave, strong, and determined to pass every obstacle that presents in your way.
You must stop telling yourself that you are failing. You must stop telling yourself that you are not enough, and you are never going to make it. Because that’s not true. You will make it. You will get there.
Right now, you are only accumulating wisdom, lessons, and knowledge from your experiences. Every painful situation that breaks you, builds you up.
Therefore, stop. Stop wondering. Stop questioning. Stop worrying if you are not where you want to be. Stop obsessing over it. You are neither broken nor defeated. You are someone who is constantly growing, learning, changing, becoming who is meant to be and succeeding in it.
You are amazing and strong. Trust in the process. And more importantly, trust in yourself.