Only when you’re in a relationship with the right person, can you create a strong emotional and spiritual bond with them. Because being with the person you’re meant to be with means being with someone who loves you from the bottom of their heart. Someone who genuinely cares about you. Someone who accepts you for who you are. Someone who is always there for you. Someone who makes your life easier and more fulfilling. Someone who brings joy and happiness into your life. Someone you mean the world to.
So, how are you supposed to know if you’re in a relationship with the right person?
When you’re with the right person, you never doubt their feelings. Instead, you know that what you two have is real. You feel this in your heart. You feel this in the depths of your being.
Here are 7 signs you’re in a relationship with the right person for you:
1. You enjoy being in their presence.
You feel free and comfortable being around your partner. When you are in their presence, you feel free to be yourself. You feel free to show them your vulnerabilities. You don’t feel like you have to pretend to be someone else so as to make yourself more likable.
When they’re around, you’re always yourself. Because you know that they accept you and cherish you for who you are.
2. You always think about them.
No matter if you are at home or at work, you often find yourself thinking about your partner. It doesn’t matter what you’re doing. You could be hanging around with your friends or you could be watching TV alone at home, thoughts of your partner always find a way to occupy your thoughts. You feel like you can’t get them off of your mind.
3. They challenge you to leave your comfort zone.
You used to be someone who was afraid of doing new stuff, but things have changed now. And that’s because your partner challenges you to step out of your comfort zone. They encourage you to do things you’ve never done before.
They encourage you to visit places you’ve never been to before. They inspire you to change your perspective on the world around you. They challenge you to embark on adventures that lead to new discoveries and lasting memories.
4. You share a similar sense of humor.
It seems as if you and your partner have a “private language,” such as jokes and nicknames, that no one else would understand. You enjoy making each other laugh no matter if you’re in a good mood or in a bad mood. Having a similar sense of humor strengthens the bond between you and brings excitement into the relationship.
5. They always respond positively to your good news.
Your partner enthusiastically supports you whenever you fulfill a goal. They always celebrate your successes, both big and small, with you. Why?
Because they believe in you. They believe in your potential. They’re aware of your qualities and strength. They know that you can achieve anything you set your mind to.
6. Both of you approach conflicts with maturity.
When you’re upset and you want to talk to your partner about your problems, whether personal or relationship, you’re able to have good, open communication with them. Because when you and your partner are talking out your relationship problems, you always follow the “when you are upset, I carefully listen” model.
In this way, you never leave your problems unresolved. You never sweep your worries and doubts under the carpet. You never leave each other in pain. Instead, you do everything in your power to solve your problems together.
7. They love you dearly.
They love you honestly, selflessly, and unconditionally. They love you from the bottom of their heart. They respect your needs, opinions, and decisions. They acknowledge your emotions. They fight for your happiness. They bring a sense of fulfillment and peace into your life. And by the way they look into your eyes, you know that their soul matches yours.