We all want to find Mr. Right, and be in love with him forever and ever. We all want the real thing. A soulmate who will arrive when we least expect it and show us dimensions of our emotions and realms of love we didn’t even know existed.
But, little do we know that recognizing someone’s real intentions is not that simple. Love is not easy. Once the fairytale-like phase is over, and the discomforts of the harsh reality hit us, that’s when the actual work begins.
So, you try. You struggle, you fight hard, you fail, you get up and do it all over again. But, only if there’s something that you both feel it’s truly worthy of persevering.
Because a person needs to feel certain things before he’s ready to take the leap of faith and dive in. He needs to be sure that the love he’s fighting for is strong enough to pull him back whenever the difficult consequences make him want to leave.
He needs to know that even though there will be obstacles along the way, you two are going to do your best to overcome them together.
That is why your dream man will only fall in love with and stay there forever if he first experiences…
1. A CONNECTION THAT LETS HIM KNOW YOU’RE THE SAFEST PLACE ON EARTH FOR HIM
The only way for a man to fall crazy in love with a woman is to first find shelter in her arms, her eyes, her heart, and her soul. A person needs to feel safe in your embrace, they need to find the home they were desperately searching for in every person before you. He needs to feel loved, desired and wanted. It is the only way he can truly give into his emotions and open his heart to you.
2. THE MAGIC OF YOUR MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING
But, it is not love and compassion that are the only things he needs to feel in order to be certain. A relationship cannot thrive if the partners aren’t familiar with the concept of compromising. For it is the only effective method for achieving the highest and most blissful realm of love.
Respect. Forgiveness. Tolerance. LOVE. These are the most important values a relationship needs to follow in order to prosper.
3. THE JOY OF FEELING SUPPORTED, NOT PUT DOWN
Understand that you could never get anything out of him through manipulation, criticism or insults. A relationship should only grow. When it is the other way around, that is a serious sign that your relationship is developing in an unhealthy way and it is likely to backfire when you least expect it. Remember, what you decide to put your attention to – grows. If it’s on a positive part of the relationship, it will grow. If it’s on a negative, it will eventually collapse.
It is essential to learn to support and praise each other if you want your love to flourish.
4. THE MOST INTENSE AND ECSTATIC SEXUAL CONNECTION
Sex may not be the only thing, but a healthy, exciting and uninhibited sex life is probably among the 5 top things you need to work on if you want your love to grow and relationship to thrive.
Don’t be afraid to experiment with your partner. You need to be free to explore the depths of your sexuality and give in to each other’s fantasies. The only way you can truly enjoy sex with your partner and fall head over heels, crazy in love with each other is to constantly re-invent your sexuality.
Lose your inhibitions and dare to move each other’s boundaries.
5. HEARING THE TRUTH
He needs to experience facing you. He needs to reveal the real you. What makes you tickle, what makes your eyes glisten, smile sparkle, heart light up.
Because when a man sees a potential partner in you, he looks for a place that is safe enough for all of his feelings to land on. He needs to know that you’re not only capable of expressing your emotions, but also guarding his own secrets and maybe teaching him how to open up.
Not all men know how to express themselves. That is why they often unconsciously search for a partner who would be patient and willing to teach them. A woman who would help them learn to identify their feelings and then share them with the world.
A woman who would make them feel alive again.