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It’s Hard To Find A Person Who’ll Love You No Matter What

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Finding a person who will stay with you no matter what is hard. 

We live in a cruel and judgmental world and sometimes even the slightest critic or harsh comment from someone can bring us down, break our heart, and damage our self-confidence.  

Everyone has flaws. The only thing that matters is to find someone who won’t be bothered by them. Someone who will still choose you over everything. Someone who will stay with you through thick and thin.

The truth is, when a man wants to be with you – he’ll be. Simple as that. And he’ll show his devotion and love in different ways. He will be there for you when you need him, he will take care of you, he will make plans to see you, he will support you and understand the beauty of your soul.  

Here are 11 things that a man does that mean he will never let you go.

1. He Finds You Beautiful Always (With or Without Makeup)

Yes, we all try to cover imperfections using makeup or we use it because we feel more confident and beautiful. Whatever the case is, a man who is in love with you will not care whether you have makeup on. Moreover, he might even like you more without it because you will look pure and vulnerable. Besides, he fell in love with your imperfections that make your face unique.

2. He Doesn’t Care About Your Weight

We, women, are guilty of spending so much time worrying about our weight. But, if you ask a man who is in love what he thinks of his partner’s weight, he would say that it doesn’t matter. A man who is really in love with you would not care if you gained a few pounds because he loves you just the way you are.

3. Age Is Only A Number to Him

When a man truly loves you and wants to spend his life with you, he won’t be bothered if you get a few extra wrinkles on your face because he understands that we change as we get older. But that’s fine to a man who wants to be with you through all ages. Wrinkles to him are marks of a life well spent with you.

4. He Is Not A Control-Freak

Many people might mistake controlling for caring, but these two things are very different. Any relationship in which partners try to control the other one is a toxic relationship. An emotionally mature man will believe in you and give you all the freedom you need. He will not suffocate your relationship with his doubts and insecurities because he understands the things that are necessary for any healthy relationship.

5.  He Is Fine with Your Mood Swings

He understands the trouble you go through every month battling your PMS and trying to not kill anyone. He loves you and he loves you in ‘those days’ with the same intensity. He brings you chocolate and tries to not get on your nerves.

6. He Supports You in Difficult Times

When a man wants to build a life with you, he will support you both emotionally or financially if you go through a crisis – if you lose your job for example. He will split the responsibilities between you and you can always be sure that whatever happens, you won’t have to face it alone.

7. He Doesn’t Try to Change You

A man who is deep in love you fell in love with the person that you are, and he doesn’t need to change anything about you. He understands that nobody is perfect, everyone has something strange about them. But a man who sees himself in the future with you will accept the real you.

8. He Forgives Your Mistakes

He understands that a relationship is not only rainbows and butterflies, but it is a living process and partners are both prone to make mistakes from time to time. However, a man who loves you and who wants to be with you can forgive and forget easily because the mere thought of not being with you is so scary that he would never risk losing you because of a mistake that you made.

9. … And Helps You Deal with Your Past Ghosts

Everyone has their baggage. The key is how they handle it. If your partner is willing to listen and understand and help you overcome your issues from your past relationship, then you have got yourself a keeper! A man who truly loves you.

10. He Is There for You When You Are Feeling Down

He knows you so well that he will immediately sense when you are feeling down. And, he will not leave you alone or try to dismiss your feelings. Instead, he would cook you a nice meal and take care of you and he will do anything to make you feel better.

11. He Gives You Space

Sometimes, we all find ourselves overwhelmed and we need to take some time to decompress and be on our own. A man who truly loves you will understand your need for isolation. He will respect your alone time because he respects you.

Do you have a man like this in your life? If you do, never let him go!


I am currently writing my first book titled Inside The Narcissist’s Psyche: His Ability To Make Victims Stay With Him Even Though The Pain They’re Feeling Is Unbearable” If you are interested to take a glimpse at it, follow this link and tell us whether you like the subject so that we can send you a  free chapter after we publish it.

Mary Wright


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