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It’s Going To Take Every Ounce Of Your Courage To Love A Woman Like Her

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Hey, you… Congratulations.

It seems to me like you’ve finally found your happy place in life.

You’ve got yourself out of the mess, moved on and found the right woman. The woman of your dreams.

You’ve come across the support that you’ve always needed. A strong, independent woman who knows what she wants in life and knows exactly how to get it. A woman who believes in herself, but also trusts you. A woman who is not afraid to let you know what her feelings and expectations are. A woman who loves. Purely, madly and passionately from the bottom of her heart.

She’s truly an angel. A blessing in a human form. A ray of sunshine on a cold morning.

But, here’s the thing about her.

She’s her own woman.

She doesn’t need you in her life, she wants you.

She doesn’t expect you to save her, she’s her own superhero.

She’s always been.

You want the truth?

It’s going to take every bit of your bravery and strength to love a woman like her. I’m not saying that it’s going to be hard, but I’m not saying that it’s going to be easy either.

All I know for sure is that it’s going to be WORTH it.

How To Love A Strong, Independent Woman

For she’s a woman made of depth, fire, and passion. She is a woman who craves more of everything. More knowledge. More of the unknown. More of the world. More challenges. More of every experience. More of every journey in life. More of your mind. More of your soul. More of your heart. More of you. More of your love.

She’s not here because she finally decided to settle down and live a peaceful life. She’s here because she saw something in you. Something worth discovering. Something worth living for. She wants to know the real you. She wants to learn what goes on inside both your mind and your soul. She’s not interested in small talk and temporary flings. She wants the real thing.

She’s already been through a lot and came back even stronger. The only thing she wants is an equal partner who will hold her hand and navigate his way through the challenges of life. Someone who will grow by her side and complement her strength in a way nobody ever did. Someone who will love her harder than she’s ever been loved before.

She wants a life with you. But she would never give up on hers in return. 

That is something you must never ask of her.

I hope you u know that.

And I truly hope you know that if you want to make this relationship work, you will have to find a way to love her without breaking her boundaries or taking her independence away. For a strong, self-sufficient lady does not need a man to complete her and make her whole. Her happiness will never depend on you or anyone else.

This is something that most men couldn’t accept about her. But, I hope you will.

I hope that you will prove to her that you are the exception to the rule and that you are exactly the man she needs in her life.  I hope you never give up on her because she’s too much. I hope you never pressure her into doing something she’d never do. I hope you never try to control her. I hope you accept her for who she is and let her thrive on her own.

It is going to take every ounce of your courage and strength to love a woman like her, but I promise…It will be worth it.

Stephanie Reeds