Maybe, deep in your heart you know that this woman loves you and will do anything to be with you. I am sure you think that no matter what you do she will always be there waiting for you to come to your senses and commit to her in a real way.
Well, I am sorry to disappoint you, but a quality woman like her doesn’t wait for anyone. She won’t wait for you and stay if you disrespect her and take her for granted.
You will lose her when you stop sending her loving good morning text messages and when she goes to bed without any glimmer of hope that you will wish her good night. She will no longer wait for your call because you never called her to asked her about her day. You only called her when you needed something from her. And now she is done.
You will lose her when you stop making her feel like she is important to you. When you stop making her feel worthy and beautiful. When you always have better things to do than be with her.
She is not someone that demands things from people. She wants her partner to be there for her not because she has asked him to, but because he really wants to. And even though she is not demanding, she knows her worth and what she deserves. She knows when someone is not appreciating her and treating her like an option.
Do you remember when was the last time you told her you loved her? Do you remember the last time you made her happy? Do you remember the last time when she felt like the most important person to you?
And when was the last time you asked her how she feels? When was the last time you hugged her and kissed her with love and affection? When was the last time you were there for her when she needed you?
And these things may seem unimportant to you, but they are of vital importance to her. You see, we women are satisfied with the little things. The little things make us happy – a hug, a smile, a kiss, knowing that we can count on you, knowing that we can trust you and that you are honest with us. And most importantly, feeling like you actually do care about us. If a woman doesn’t feel these things, she will leave.
She may take some time, give you chances to improve yourself, but eventually she will leave. Of course she loves you, but love enough is not so powerful to make her stay forever bound to you. After some time, she will choose herself and start looking for someone who will see her value and reciprocate her love and efforts.
Truthfully, it kills us having to walk away from you. But she can no longer fool herself and make excuses for your crude behavior. She is tired of being the only one who tries to save the relationship. She is tired of crying, tired of worrying about you. She is done.
She is preparing to leave you, and when she does it – there will be no turning back. She will finally close the chapter of you two. And it will be all your fault.